last week i posted a question about my girlfriend needing space and making it feel like a breakup but not making that clear.i still cannot let her go.and shes not making it any easier because she calls me to go see her on her lunch break(which i always buy her lunch)and she will call if she needs help with something.she also has a bunch of her stuff still at my place.we work at the same job and the other day i caught her talking to this guy .it just didnt look right.when i asked her about it,she said they were discussing work.sometimes she tells me she loves me and kisses me,other times nothing at all.what the hell should i do at this point?
2007-08-01 18:43:48 · 3 answers · asked by mcready777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long has your two's "break" been? If it's been more than a month, I'd say call her and tell her you need to talk about the two of you. The only way that you're EVER going to get a straight answer out of her is if you (for lack of a better term) confront her on it. Tell her that you need to know where the relationship stands so that you can move on with your life one way or another. A month is more than enough time for her to figure out what she wants in the relationship, and it is not fair to drag this out.
But, the one piece of advice that I will give you is that if she says that she feels that it is time to move on, then NEVER look back. Go on with your life and, while it's extremely hard (trust me, I know), move on.
2007-08-01 18:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by cjmeyer57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you!! you need to get away from this girl asap. I don't want to be rude but it's for your own good. If she starts dating someone else it'll be harder for you to let her go so now is the best time and find some other friends at work that you can hang out with instead. oh ya and you shouldn't be the only one buying lunch, both of you guys need to take turns paying.
2007-08-02 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by RGK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to make up her mind. She is just stringing you along. It is not fair for you to let her do this to you. Don't let her make a fool of you. Put your foot down now, or she will continue to hurt you.
2007-08-02 01:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋