Why do so many Women associate a man's feelings, who's caring ect. (whose not currently they're bf or husband, or family ect.) with insecurity?
2007-08-01 18:41:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feelings alone do not turn them off. Its feelings of neediness, insecurity, and inadequacy that turn them off.
Not only do these feelings turn them off but they can read them through body language, facial expression, and pupil dialation... ALL SUBCONSCIOUSLY.
They aren't even aware that they are processing the information. It just goes straight to the attraction mechanism and says NO.
So you think you are a caring guy? I bet you do things for women all the time that you wouldn't do for your guy friends. That means you aren't caring because you are nice.... you are doing them to manipulate women into liking you. And the worst part is...IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.
If you'd like a peak at how it really works, click on my profile and check out the second question I answered on here about the guy who is going to see the girl after a year.
2007-08-01 18:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Claws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are rather egotistical to be frank. If they aren't bragging about their d*** they're talking about their abs. Someone who doesn't have a huge ego is associated with shy guys who are afraid to show off to the ladies. Thus, if you are not shallow and dumb you are labeled insecure or gay. I honestly am looking for somone who doesn't have an enormas ego and if you're like that you're probably a great catch for some lucky girl! :)
2007-08-02 01:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase they take everything personally and assume men do too.
2007-08-02 01:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋