Alright I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend or a kiss for that matter. Theirs nothing wrong with my appearance or anything, infact I look like a Barbie. But I'm shy and have a hard time opening up. I have high morals, and so that makes me kinda picky...those are my excuses. So the real question is: Do most guys care if girls are experienced? Or do they like them to be pure?
2007-08-01 17:49:10 · 22 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, first off I admire how long you've waited to recieve your first kiss. Congrats on that and you should be proud. Not alot of girls out there like you. Some guys (the stupid ones) care about what you and your lips can do. Some gys ( the cool ones) appreciate and like the fact that your pure and you're nobody's leftovers. The fact that you still haven't kissed anyone should mean alot to them. Make sure your kiss is something you can look back on and remember, don't do it just to get it done. Having high morals is fine, as long as you don't think of yourself as you're paris hilton because she's a *****. Girls like her just make guys want one thing. To get laid. It all depends on how you project yourself to guys. If you want to be the pure, sweet, but kinky girl with high morals it's up to you to portray that image. If you want guys to think your just another girl than go randomly kiss 213263443 guys. and the fact that you look like barbie, than damn.
2007-08-01 17:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by madabz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of romanticize the idea of being a girl's first, and that creates a much different sort of attraction than a girl who has a lot of experience. Being her first makes me feel special, like I really mean a lot to her. Of course, those relationships come with annoying obligations and if they weren't made in heaven, they soon become a ball-and-chain. That's why a lot of guys like easy girls: If it starts with no expectation of going long-term, then things can be fun for as long as possible. If something lasting develops, then so be it, but if something better comes along, the guy can go for it.
The important thing though is to convey that you are ready for a relationship and are willing to let things flow naturally. Talking at all about what isn't going to happen is usually a one way ticket out the door. Of course, the longer you wait for Mr. Right, the more of a gem he'll probably be. It sounds like you have a lot to offer him, but if you choose a guy based on morals, I can almost guarantee you'll get bored with him eventually.
2007-08-02 01:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Answers For Everything 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys like to think that there lover is pure, experience these days means,....potential disease!!! I am HIV +, HPV +(sex warts), and Herpes +,...By looking at ME you would never know it!!! Be careful, use condoms but even condoms can come off or break! Don't worry about "experience", keep your high morals, don't be so shy, yet be careful who you choose. I think the best relationships are the ones that begin as friends,... honesty begets trust. If your lucky a healthy relationship will develop. So in closing stay pure and work on your conversational skills so that you can be more open to a good relationship!
2007-08-02 01:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are happy with experienced girls because that experience makes them better in bed and presumably more understanding in the relationship. Inexperienced girls maybe can be molded a bit and aren't really damaged and bitter so they aren't bad either. If I were you I wouldn't worry what the guy is going to think too much but it is nice for your own sake to have some experience so that you know how different guys behave and can take your pick.
2007-08-02 01:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lobster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't care.. trust me. If they do their players and probably not for you anyways. To be honest it's almost impossible to be a bad kisser. Don't feel like you have to rush into anything with some random guy just to be ready for "mr. right". Its good that you have enough morals to wait, it's a quality hard to come by these days. The man you decide to actually be with will appreciate you waiting for him. If he doesn't you made a mistake.
2007-08-02 01:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't care! However, a lot of guys try to tale advantage of the pure innocent girls with no experience, so don't be fooled! As for the rest of that stuff! You just need to ask your gal pals to help you out with the dating scene! Good Luck!!
If you want to date the therapist email me! LOL!! No really I am just here to give advice, no dates!
2007-08-02 00:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by teentherapy08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, looking like barbie means there's EVERYTHING wrong with your appearance.
But on to the main part of your question - guys don't give a crap if you've done it once, never or a million times, as long as they CAN.
2007-08-02 00:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it really matters if a girl is experienced or not. Guys are interested in girls who are pretty and are not weird. From what I can see you should have no problem getting a guy.
good luck.
2007-08-02 00:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that youve got standards or else a man would try to taint your pureness... also i like that you admit to calling them excuses. guys at a young age, high school dont really care, actually i dont think most guys do care. but a woman, 30 years old could teach us a thing or two... anyways back to you- but guys like a nice girl
2007-08-02 01:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy... a for real guy... likes one that they are attracted to, that has a great personality, and that likes them too.
Thats it.
'experience' isnt worth much if it was bad experiences. Then you usually have a girl with issues. I been around all types I do know what im talking about here.
2007-08-02 00:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by sociald 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋