you find out that your bf is still in contact with his ex. Texting here and again, phone calls here and agin, would you be concerned?
2007-08-01 17:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by ms75 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? Well, whatever age, dump the guy. Trust is a big thing. And if he's not ready then, move on. No biggie!
2007-08-01 17:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by vetsmom_rgv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have kids necessary. If not. I don't like it. They are an ex for a reason. Maybe I am harsh but I don't care to be friends with any of my ex bf. Am I civil if I run into them ?absolutely, but I am not seeking them out for anything.
If she is seeking him out I would feel your discomfort is justified.
2007-08-01 17:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be concerned about it. It means that there is still something there between them.
2007-08-01 17:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be to concerned unless they were hanging out a lot, and him hanging out more often with her then you. Though as long as he isn't flirting with her then you shouldn't be to concerned. Just keep a close eye on him.
2007-08-01 17:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes--he should have valid reasons for that activity--it is a free world and he can do what he wants--but I think it shouldn't be a secret and he should have reasons that are honorable. You can ask but remeber--he is free to do what he wants.... is it nice to do???--who knows. Good luck
2007-08-01 17:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he hiding it from you? If so I would be concerned enough to ask him about it.
2007-08-01 17:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by 1sleepymama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be concerned.
2007-08-01 17:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by mike m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dump him!
2007-08-01 17:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad he wasn't honest with me about it.
2007-08-01 17:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be mad
he should just move on
2007-08-01 17:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋