Im so crzy with him.. ive never been so hot tempered.. i never cared so much about anything... everything he does affects me... it terrifies me to think of him leaving me... i dont no what to do with myself... he says hes crazy about me too but i think i just go way too far... sometimes i get anxious when im not around him... and my chest hurts.. my throat hurts.. but then when i am actually with him.. it feels so good its like a drug or something...
im afraid of messing anything up hes just to good to be true...
when ever hes mad or annoyed i go crazy its like the world is spinning and then when everything is ok again.. i wonder why i felt like that.. and i see everything clearly.. and i think i will never overreact like that again.. and i should keep my cool.. but then next time we get into an argument i go crazy again!
2007-08-01 17:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by not happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean..... i no its not healthy... but help...?... what should i do...
2007-08-01 17:36:57 · update #1
I was like that too with my boyfriend. I am still deeply in love with him and I still feel a lot of those things but over time you realize you can go on with your life even if they are not with you ever second. Trust me! Try not to get too clingly or you may push him away though. I've been dating my boyfriend 3 years now and when I'm not with him I miss him but I just realize I will see him again. If you two have just started dating it's ok. Go out with your friends and family and just realize he obviously wants to be with you. If you spend all your time worrying about losing him, what point is the relationship?
2007-08-01 17:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, mellow out. Take it from me, calm down. I know you love him, but don't obsess over him dumping you or else it WILL become a self fufilling prophecy. If your temper is seriously bad, get therapy. In the meantime, when you guys argue and you know you're about to snap, take a break from it to cool off. Wait till you can communicate logically before resolving the conflict. If it helps and if you guys have been together long enough, tell him calmly how you feel and what you plan to do to resolve the issue. Ask for his support and input. Try to resolve this together. However, if you are abusive or becoming abusive, don't date anyone. Best of luck.
2007-08-01 17:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away speedy!! he's not any freaking best for you, i do no longer supply a crap what you're saying. ANY guy who places you down on an analogous time as quickly as isn't nicely worth it. It in basic terms ability that throughout a protracted time he will start up hitting you because of the fact he knows he can without you leaving him or CALLING THE POLICE ON HIM. -that's what you're able to do if he abuses you. this is no longer friggen rocket technology. in case you are able to not discover everybody greater powerful, you're lots greater powerful on my own.
2016-10-09 00:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dnt have mental issues or anything. i mean i dont overreact or anythign when my bf gets mad, i actually like making him mad, its so sexy..lol
but i feel like that sometimes 2 about my bf. its so normal
it shows ur really krazy about the boy,and u really like him.
trust me, when i was reading your question i was thinking of my situation. i just love my bf. he's my drug. so ur not alone here
2007-08-01 17:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre in love thats why you act like that ! just try to calm it down a little ! just tell him how you feel and why you act the way you do ! that youre scared of loosing him
2007-08-01 17:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just told the world. and then keep talkin bout it. it'll be a fun conversation as long as you dont make it awkward. then you can figure things out together
2007-08-01 17:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by theToasterOven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, its allright.. thats perfectly normal.. it shows ur head over heels for him..
u should be worrying when the day comes when u realise that u dont miss him anymore or whatever he does u wont care.
2007-08-01 17:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling, you have mental issues.
2007-08-01 17:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound obsessed. That is not healthy.
2007-08-01 17:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U mental?????Go To .....................
2007-08-01 17:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Edwin J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋