I don't understand how it naturally happens guys I was afraid of growing up feel ashamed too & embarrassed cause nerds go w/out that when outta highschool I suffer from generalized anxiety & depression. mom thinks too I m jealous of sis 2yrs younger married 4 yrs 2 kids but am not Im mad @ myself for not knowing how to make friends & all that even job won't hire me they want experience I'm all stressed out & have no support other than counselor, sister 2 yrs younger I do I admit hold a grudge about her not including me in when teens I messed out completely on that life. even my sis 9 yrs younger had friends since 3 yrs old. life hard sometimes & dull only friend u have is 40 yr old lady from moms job only friend she's got too mom has no 1 really either back to 40 yr old I cry to dad sometimes cause not finding a hubby hangin' out w/ her she knows no 1 my age she even said it, I never see ppl my age always older or lil kids, have no way to leave house except store or grma's house.
2007-08-01 17:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by marissas aunt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a hobby and get out of the house. Join a bowling league, go golfing, go to sewing circle with the old ladies at the library, take a continuing education class in college, that would help your career also.
2007-08-01 17:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Running has always helped me. I'll put on a pair of sneakers and start my morning out with a jog. That gives me time to think about my day, how I'll choose to interact with people, and how my relationships will go.
It doesn't have to be running for you. It can be gardening, or golfing, bicycling, or whatever you like (not TV or Internet). You'll have to plan to be around folks your age rather than wait for it to happen. Work on that first. Once you've met other people, then when you do whatever it is you like to do in the mornings, and start thinking about the kind of guy you'd like. Keep the baby steps up - and always take that personal time; that'll get you where you want to be.
In addition, if your medical insurance will cover it; go to a psychologist instead of a counselor.
Good luck and you'll do great. Late starts aren't bad - never is!
2007-08-01 17:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the same boat as me. I moved to a different city and now i am losing my best friend. I think that we should care what other think, just out there and met new people! Dont go out there worrying about making friend, just go other and have fun! Do hold ur self back, u been holding back for the last 28 years. So live life to the fullest.
I plan on traveling and skydiving if I ever get the chance. So what are you waiting for?
Do feels sorry and hold grudge, that only make u bitter, insist congratulated others and go out there to live ur life. You could say to get the "experience".
But dont be crazy like get up on drug, u know people just end up losing their family, and that i am sure is not the life u envision.
there nothing u can do about ur teen years, my teen years is he++ but i am a surviver!
So "if u can dream it, u can do it"
2007-08-01 17:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by *_- 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your bf sounds like how I used to be, and you sound just like my bf. We were also in a long distance thing. I think the best thing for you to do is maybe take a break from him. That's what my bf did to me and I was devastated, but I learned to back off. He never gave me any type of ultimatum, and just called it off all together. I really opened my eyes after that and loosen up about what he did. Maybe you should talk to your bf and tell him to go out on the days that you do, so he won't be alone. You're a responsible adult as well, so it's ultimately up to you what you want to do.
2016-05-20 22:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try on-line dating....do activities outside the house. Try yoga or do a fun class at like a community college, like art or something. Good luck.
2007-08-01 17:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out there, get involved in group activities. Take a chance, have fun.
2007-08-01 17:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont worry you will find that specail someone then you will experience that and then some
2007-08-01 17:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by littlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple........
HANG OUT
but don't mess around, just find one soul mate
;-) worked 4 me
I LOVE her so much
2007-08-01 17:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by hameerabbasi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm... be sexier.
2007-08-01 17:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋