just wondering if it is a big no no
2007-08-01 17:09:30 · 11 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry i should have benn more spesific. it's my dad not my bf's dad. And i do have proof. He left is accidenltly left his email open and told me it was ok if i checked my email and it was on an email to some escort telling her how good she was
2007-08-01 17:17:34 · update #1
I would keep that kinda private
2007-08-01 17:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is okay, if you trust him and have been with him for a long time. I talk to my boyfriend about everything because I know he can keep a secret.. I trust him more than anyone.
Your BF is supposed to be your co-pilot. And if he knows your dad maybe he could give feedback... after all, you just think your dad is cheating, right? You don't have proof or anything... I can't tell you how many times I've thought that... but hang in there. I hope everything comes out okay :)
2007-08-02 00:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mare Bear 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that's something that should be kept inside the family circle and you obviously aren't part of that family circle. What would lead you to believe your bf's dad is cheating anyway?? I guess I probably would be a little tempted to tell BUT if only I saw first hand his dad making out with another woman. Otherwise, keep the suspicions to yourself, it could cause a problem.
2007-08-02 00:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Probably not ok. What is he going to do to help the situation? And he may just possibly go around blabbing his mouth to everyone and make for a really bad situation. Also, it kind of makes your family look a little... erm... Jerry! Jerry! if you know what i mean.
2007-08-02 00:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by timssterling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, it's totally cool. He'll probably feel more important in your life if you do share those things to him. It will probably make you feel better aswell. I'm sorry to hear about your parents, btw. Mine just got a divorce, recently.
It sucks, but somehow it comes together in the end.
2007-08-02 00:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he gets suspicious because things seem awkward in your house, I would just tell him that your parents are having a little trouble within the marriage. Anything more than that, he doesn't really need to know.
2007-08-02 00:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kari Grace 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A very big no-no. That's something that should be kept within the family household.
A boyfriend has no busines in knowing "dirty laundry."
2007-08-02 00:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you talking about your parents or his parents?? if its your parents tell him (if you trust him) but if its his parents i would wait to find out for sure before telling him.
2007-08-02 00:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by shelbie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u shudnt
that kinda thing shud not go outside the family
2007-08-02 00:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by hameerabbasi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend probably won't want you to say stuff like that about his parents. He might be offended.
2007-08-02 00:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋