Me and my girlfriend of 2 years are about to go to third, and i wanted to be the best of... well what i could be, and i wanted to know if any guys out there have any tips or tricks that would make the experiance better for the girl, note this would be both or first times into this.
2007-08-01 17:05:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's my advice to you mate...take it slow. i know you might be thinking...2 years how much slower do you want me to take it...lol...not like that...just be kewl and take your time. Don't rush straight to the sweet spot...3rd base is all about foreplay..use that...start at first base and work up to it slowly. When you are finally ready for the oral sex part, my advice is do not attempt for any kind of 69. take turns so that you can both experience it in all its glory and not being too concerned about the other to not enjoy whats happening to you. do not be afraid to ask questions...do you like it this way, is this too much for you, do you prefer something I've allready done, etc...i mean don't spend so much time asking her questions you aren't working, but don't be afraid to ask either. you don't know and you can't base it off any one person either. everyone male and female both like different things. some women like direct stimulation on certian areas and others its too much. do not dive your fingers right in either...be slow and take your time. same when its your turn...do not be afraid to tell her what works and what doesn't. do not be turned off either if it takes a while...if you don't do it right it can take a LONG LONG time...but it can be very pleasurable for you both. this is important as well....as a curteousy, when she is pleasing you and it is time tell her before you explode...that way she has the chance to decide what she wants to do. it can go very bad if she gets it somewhere she doesn't want it. not all girls like it in the mouth, and very few like the "money shot". its important for you both to remember its the first time...things will likely go wrong, hell they tend to even on your 1000th time...lol...just be sure to keep the communication open and enjoy it. if you really care and want her to experience it the best, do not be upset or mad or anything if after you please her, she tries and can't do it, tires out, etc. If you don't get your turn now, just wait and it'll be all the more better when it is. but again just take it slow and easy and make it all both the experience for the other one and not about yourselves.
2007-08-01 21:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by cpt_rose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must be a special lady, if you waited two years to go this far. It's been awhile since I was in this position and can't imagine what you two have been up to for over 700 days! These are only tips....using tricks...wait until your married thirty years.
1. Ensure your hands are clean and free of calluses (rough hands are a turn off even after home run) and if you smoke...stop. Don't use mouthwash but make sure you brush your teeth and tongue.
2. Sensitive areas on a lady are the neck (from the ear down to the shoulder), ear lobes, nipples, along the sides of the breast, hip areas, behind the knee and I know woman who like to have their feet touched (but not my lady). These areas should be caressed and not pawed. Lips and hands are the only thing you got going for you, however setting the mood also helps, like making sure mom and dad, sisters and brothers aren't around.
3. Hopefully things do not get out of hand however you should be prepared with a condom and to be fully prepared there are great lubricants (K-Y brands) that were not available in my youth. Many woman find their first time was not great due to the guy not getting the woman ready and the rubbing really irritated them. This made their first time bad. And having to use this should not be a bad thing to a guy. Using the lubricants actually could enhance the whole partnership.
2007-08-01 17:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first time is "never" going to be perfect no matter how hard you try.
I know I'm not a guy, but just take it nice and slow, make sure you're using contraception eg. she's on the pill, you have a box of condoms and some lubricant.
I personally recommend Ansell Contempo Nuda condoms and some Ansell Personal Lubricant for your added pleasure.
You might also want to consider reading a book or visiting some websites in regards to different positions.
But then again when it's your first time it's just a matter of trial and error!
Good Luck!
2007-08-01 17:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not ask a woman for her perspective? Trust me, I've been around enough, and most guys I've been with suck at the whole oral sex thing. My fiancee, however, got it right from the start.
I personally like when a guy pushes his tongue hard on anything down there, and does that whole "swirly tongue action" thing. I don't know, you have to change it up. It's not one of those things where you just sit there and lick the same area for hours on end...
2007-08-01 17:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Weesy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you guys have done up until now, girls are not that ready when thier virgins it always hurts the first time and it might be all good for you but its a different story for them, yeah take it slow like everyone said and be confident not forcefull
2007-08-01 17:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since your both new to it dont overly try to impress her, i could get hella dirty on here but people like to complain to yahoo so with that being said just use alot of light caressing, sensual kissing (everywhere) and make out with certain parts. Some like flat tongue for certain things others like inside, findout what works for you. Good luck be safe.
2007-08-01 17:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I in no way enable a guy get to 3rd base if i will help it. i'm a shortstop. i attempt to holiday the runner after he leaves 2d base. Afterwards we many times decide for hamburgers and hotdogs. We purchase our own meals.
2016-12-15 03:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by messenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 20:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if thats the case.....take it nice and easy and slow. if ya'll keep doing it then you can try new things and 1 really good thing is to put a pillow underneath her lower back to raise her and she will be moaning like crazy for you!but since its both of yours 1st time then do it slow. be gentle
2007-08-01 17:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Pedro J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go slow and be considerate of how's she's feeling and reacting to what's going on. Make sure the way she feels is more important than how you do.
2007-08-01 17:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋