i feel like am losing my boyfriend?

Question

we started dating three months . am 18 going to 19. i intend to have sex with one man my entire life and i know i would never cheat on him. we stayed for six months before sex. well he had to leave the school and is in another state. was a virgin when i met him but he was not. i found out that i had UTi last month and he found today he had it too. am i responsible for it? am on the shot and we dont use condoms. he hasent been calling as much as he used to. what do u all think

Answer 1

Wow an interesting satistic that might scare you regarding UTI's. See a womens immune system can only handle about 3 different forgien bodies at a time. Which basically means if a woman sleeps with more then 3 man with in a certian amount of time she is setting up for a UTI. Now if she sleeps with a man who has had sex with 2 or more women in the last month... well you can get a UTI. Now if everything is good and golly then its probuly just something that happen, some women due to countless factors are more exceptable to UTI's. But to be honest just by the way your handling yourself (not very maturly you old romantic you) he is probuly taking advantage of your naivness...