i am 17 and i was at the pool with some of my friends i dont have a boyfriend yet and this really freeky dude kept swiming past us and would no leave us alone so we went to the deeper end of the pool where my feet did not touch the bottom of the pool by alot so the guy swam over while we were not looking and keet siming under us we got out cus he was starting to scare us my friend left befour me so i had to walk home alone i did not notice for awhile but he was video tapeing me in my bikini when he noticed i noticed he speed up like he was gonna talk to me but he just passed me and went into a house as he passed me he pinched my butt what do i do about this creep with out haveing to tell anyone else????
2007-08-01 16:24:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him if he comes anywhere near you again you're going to call the cops on him. If he's stupid enough to call you on it, then pick up the phone and get his butt arrested.
If he's doing this to you, he has done it, is doing it, and will continue to do it to other girls. Don't let him get away with it. The next girl, he might do worse than pinch her butt.
2007-08-01 16:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the lifeguards at the pool! They are trained to deal with people like that and can help you get him away. They are their to watch out for your overall safety not just to keep you from drowning! Next time, don't walk home alone! Tell someone or call for a ride. Stay in groups of two or more and always be ready to scream and run! Don't ever give up without a fight, this is your safety! Too many girls your age and older are being abducted and raped daily, because they don't tell somebody! If you get left by yourself, ask the lifeguard or someone to walk you home or call the police, they will be more than glad to drive you home safely!
Safety first!
Life above all!
Think about the next girl who could be hurt or worst, because you didn't tell someone soon enough! Watch out and be safe!
2007-08-01 23:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and keep walking while you talk to them--don't stop---keep the police advised of where you are and they can meet this guy for a little questioning. Call the police on a cell phone if you have one--keep walking in a safe manner. Creeps are all over--I am glad you are alert--you are better off getting away and if he tails you--call it in--the police have to respond--that is their job--keep calm and talk clearly and don't use that stupid kid language--um--like--duh--talk like an educated person. Just guessing but I know kids talk silly now a days and it is hard to take any kid seriously.
2007-08-01 23:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell someone, even though it may seem embarrassing. You did nothing to deserve his behavior towards you, so you should talk to your parents. Next time call the police, and if he starts following you home DONT GO HOME -- you don't want to give away where you live. Go to a police station, a store, or back to the pool if there's someone there who can call for help.
2007-08-01 23:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your parents and then the police.This guy is sick.it could be rape next time.It is NOT okay or apprpriate for a man to touch a young woman ANYWHERE.He could do this to your friends next time or some other young lady.While somewhat embarrassing, I am sure, your folks will understand.You did nothing wrong,do the right thing and report it.
2007-08-01 23:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by dog biscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats freaky!! you have to tell someone that could get out of hand! ew!!! But if you insist on not telling anyone stay with a friend! DONT stay alone
2007-08-01 23:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by bananablurp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time u see him, make sure a bunch o ppl r round, and scream that hes a perv, and call the cops on the spot - wish i could be there to both see his face, and beat the hell out of him. anyone like that disgusts me to a point that I can't express it in words.....
2007-08-01 23:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by supsarge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the frickin cops, that's harrassment. that **** goes on way too much. but if cops know there's been a complaint against someone before, then it's much more likely he'll be arrested next time.
2007-08-01 23:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by JEWfan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to the pool anymore!!! or perhaps the next time you see him you bring out ur own little video camera and tape him!! then pinch him on his ***!!!
2007-08-01 23:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, your story made me kinda giggle... Its really not funny though and I can understand that... you can't do anything without telling someone... tell your mother and she will know how to help you...
2007-08-01 23:29:06 · answer #10 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋