ok.. so there's this guy.. and i know i can't just throw myself at him and be all i love you, go out with me! so how do i play hard to get but not too hard to get ??
2007-08-01 15:59:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, do you talk with him? If you do then you just flirt a bit - men like to have a good chance before they ask! Never be available the same day or next - if they ask you for a date then it has to be that you only have space in your diary 7 days from then. He will then have to ensure he books you in advance to get dates with you - drives them nuts. Don't have bedroom athletics for a long time. Never ring them first and never text them first. If he texts, you leave it a few hours before returning his text or even a day. If he phones, you are busy so you keep the conversation very short. Thats it. Good luck.
2007-08-05 11:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a little challenge but be careful. Flirt and he will do the rest if he is interested. But if "you play TOO hard to get "you might not get GOT!!
2007-08-01 23:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by armandingo71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg just b urself and stop playing all these games and following all these "rules". if the guy is really worth it, he will like u for U and not for wat ur trying 2 be. And 2 give u a heads up, if he starts liking u cuz hes "chasing" u then deep down he truly doesnt because it took a "chase" to get him interested and not just YOU naturally.....
ive been there, done that. in the end its kinda stupid cuz u wasted so0o much time "planning out" wat u was gonna do to make him "want u more" but its all an illusion. your kinda fooling him into liking you and if u think about it., your kinda foolin urself.
be urself cuz me being myself brought me the guy i am with now, and we are in love. no games. no rules.
good luck
2007-08-01 23:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by H0tt_P!nk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most often, when you play hard to get, you win.
Don't play at all - just tell the guy you're interested and see where it goes. If he's not interested then that's that.
2007-08-01 23:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by CoachT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him constant clues ur into him. If he starts to feign interest, just text him or something. Keep him kinda on the edge in a mysterious way, but never act like you don't like him or completely ignore him for long periods of time
2007-08-01 23:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play hard to get. its way over-rated.
its not like your eaither throwing yourself at a guy or playing hard to get, there are things in-between.
flirt suttlely, and when you can tell that he can tell that you might potential be interested, ask him out. or if you think thats to needy or whatever, just keep flirting untill he asks you.
-GOD BLESS
2007-08-01 23:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get is the worst thing you can do i reckon. As possible the guy will just relise you arent interested and just move on, and you lose.
2007-08-02 04:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by Wardie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the hard to get thing does work sometimes but if he likes u he will like it a lot more if u show signs that u like him back
2007-08-03 02:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when people play hard to get... Why can't people just be pure and honest?
2007-08-01 23:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Of Darkness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why play games at all? No one wins. Too high school.
2007-08-01 23:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋