HELP!! okayyy so me and this guy have liked eachother 4 a while and i wanted to make him jelous and in a good wayy and i told him i had to choose between him and another guy...andrew and he texted back "ok i dont think i want a girlfriend so if u want him i guess u can what do i do to get him back.
2007-08-01 15:54:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this kind of sucks. But you should just talk to him and tell him that youre not even interested in the other guy. But dont begg him or anything cuz then he'll just think you're all in love with him and he'll be cocky. But yeah, just let him know you are not even interested in the other guy but dont say 'i pick you' or anything cuz he already said he doesnt want a gf. You have to keep in mind that he might also be playing games to make you think he doesnt care.
2007-08-01 15:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, EVER try to make a guy that you WANT jealous. It ALWAYS backfires on you. Just like this. You thought it would make him jealous and want you more thinking that some other guy wanted you, when in REALITY it just makes YOU look like an indecisive slut (sorry, but that's how it makes you look, not saying you ARE one) who doesn't really want HIM, but just a toy to play with.
I'm not sure if there is anything you can do to salvage this. You could try honesty with him and tell him that you wanted to know how much he liked you and thought that if he got jealous you would know. Then tell him that you went about it all the wrong way and that you should never have done what you did. You can tell him it wasn't true, but he won't believe it. Then you can tell him that you do really like him and you would like to be his girlfriend, and only HIS girlfriend, and there is no one else you would even consider choosing from, he's the only one you are interested in. And then tell him that you understand that you lost his trust in you by doing this, so you would completely understand if he changed his mind about you, but you would like the chance to prove to him that it's him you like, and even if you have to be JUST FRIENDS for a while to do that, you want that chance.
Be prepared for him to tell you no, and you can't blame him if he does. But he might decide that he could give you a chance. And if he does, don't mess it up this time.
2007-08-01 16:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Raven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by not playing games its so foolish to play game with someone you love because your game may cost you a love and a friend. You cant change anyone but you trying to make them like you by the game playing does just what this did blow up in your face. Be honest with him tell him how you feel and what you did and why and hope for the best more games will only make things worse.
2007-08-01 16:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When girls do that to a guy, the guy that they are saying to is thinking "OK she doesn't want me." The only way that you would be able to get him back is to just tell him the straight out truth of what you did. You did something that was really stupid. It's ok though. Everybody makes mistakes.
2007-08-01 16:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by RickG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a dumb move. Trying to make a guy jealous really pisses them off and makes them a little too jelous and angry that they rebel. Woman are different and see it as a challenge, woman like to fight for the best guy for compitition and attention so making a woman jelous can work.
2007-08-01 15:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kirby that just goes to show you that you need to be honest and not juvenile in relationships. Childish games like this will often come back to bite a person on the butt and give them the exact opposite of what they were seeking. Hope that you learned a valuable lesson from this.
2007-08-01 15:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to be with him and the choice was easy. His comment was problem due to a fear of rejection. I mean think how horrible it would be if you really liked someone, thought they like you, and then they started dating someone else. That is a huge slap in the face and like saying I like you, but you aren't good enough for me
2007-08-01 15:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by wkuchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a pretty messy mistake. I guess that only thing that you can do would be to tell him that you really like him and you want to be with him. you are going to have to be up front about it and tell him the truth that is the only way to get him back. \
Good Luck
2007-08-01 15:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoops...
telling him that you were just messing with his head isn't going to get him back - that's more likely to make him think you're a touch messed up and dramatic.
let it go for a week or so and then tell him you and the other guy didn't work out.
next time, don't try to make a guy jealous on purpose, guys get jealous just fine without your help.
2007-08-01 15:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by CoachT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him the truth and if he really likes u he will come back 2 u even though u was playing games I hate that myself as well
2007-08-01 16:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by how do I know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋