i hope u can help me. I meet a guy online who happens to be my ex bf frens, we went out after chatting on email fro 8 mths. he only knew i was his fren ex during the first meeting we had. We had sex on the first date. After the few meetings he continued calling /text me on mobile. went out for lunch and talks a lot. He even told me all the sad story of him, with the gf breakup n family divorce. We had sex for the second time on our third meeting. After that we proceed to have a drink and after promised to see me again. The funny thing is he called me on the way back and told me that he wants just be my frens without sex. He told me he is feeling very guilty to have sex with me again.( another thing im married, his single and he knows - the reason he is feeling guilty?) Im very offended that he said that but i wasnt sure what he wanted. next day he called me for 3x . I never answer as im kinda angry at wat he say. Maybe i wasnt good enuf or not what he wanted. im kinda attacted too him.
2007-08-01 15:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by Destiny C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, what is your question? Honestly, sweetie, it sounds like you're giving sex away and then wondering why it's not paying off with a resulting long-term relationship. If that's the case, get a pen and take a note: Men will (for the most part) have sex with you for the sheer pleasure of it. Regardless of connections, if you're an easy mark, you're going to get laid and abandoned. I'd suggest that you swear off men for a few months and get a handle on who you are and what you want. When you re-enter the scene, have a standard and stick to it. You don't want to perpetuate the treatment you're getting now.
2007-08-01 15:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by rb29440 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear there is possibility for a woman to get pregnant any time during her cycle, but the time that she is most likely to get pregnant is when she's ovulating,which is normally 2 weeks after her period. But keep in mind that she can get pregnant ANY TIME. Do you really wanna take your chances? There are other forms of birth control other then the pill and condoms.
2016-05-20 22:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by adrienne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married! you should get this guys out of your head and stick to your man or get a divorce and get the other guy back.
2007-08-01 15:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to get out while you can, before you become too emotionally attached. There are so many people that can get hurt in the long run including you, him, your husband, your ex boyfriend etc...
Get out now while it's just sex before too many emotions get involved.
2007-08-01 15:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by princessgirlll 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's see if I got everything straight here...
You're married...
You're STILL dating...
You're cheating on your husband with an old friend...
And YOU are offended because HE doesn't want to ruin the life that you are CLEARLY throwing away?!?!?
2007-08-01 15:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go now befor alot of people get hurt and how come you had sex with him your marryed and you dont have sex on first date.
2007-08-01 15:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in answering your question - it is like bailing out the Titanic with a thimble.
2007-08-01 15:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he feels guilty because you are married... so that is why he is backing off, he doesn't want to get too involved with too many things
2007-08-01 15:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, one possibility is he doesn't like you because u r a morn and kant spill.
the other is that he feels guilty he had sex with a girl who is MARRIED and maybe you should feel guilty too.
2007-08-01 15:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by no 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are married, solve that first and then worry about this new guy. I know you are confused, but it is not fair for anyone.
2007-08-01 15:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by ChioPio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋