he does this everytime i see him and then when i tell him i dont feel like it he "talks me into it" even though i really dont want to have sex with him everyday.
2007-08-01 15:38:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok I know this is stupid but when I came here the Minutes ago you asked this was 3 you had 3 days left and theres 3 answers 333?? Ok well anyhoo. Some guys are sexist he only wants you for sex. Think about his. next time he has sex with you , you could become pregnet. Would you like that? And then probably when the baby is born he will leave you guys alone and find someone else.Try doing this...
1st. If you wanna cause him pain.. try right before he hums you to kick his nuts and then tell him to leave you alone.
2nd. If you don't wanna cause him any pain...tell him you don't wanna be his gf anymore if all he wants to do is has sex with you.
try that and maybe he will back of.
I Hope I Helped!!
2007-08-01 15:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure if this makes him a bad guy or not. He probably just has a extreme sex drive and you turn him on. If you don't want to have sex him every time he comes around- then don't let yourself get "talked into it". Now if you want it in return.. then there nothing with him wanting to have sex with you every time he sees you...
If he starts treating you differently when you guys don't have sex- like if he gets mean, aggravated and distant---- Then you leave him- but if he remains playful and affectionate and his personality doesn't change whether you guys have sex or don't have sex- then keep him- just be sure to be honest with him when you don't want to be intimate. You could be giving him the wrong Idea is you are intimate with him when you don't want to be and that would also be making you unhappy.
Just jokingly say " all you want me for is sex :( " see how he treats you after that and develop a judgment from his response.
2007-08-01 15:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by smiley10036 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liz sounds like he's trying to control you and play childish games by giving you the silent treatment if he doesn't get his way. Please realize that when you say no that you have the power to stick to your guns. If he continues to try and coerce you into having sex this can be viewed as a form of rape and he needs to be aware of this as well as you. Your body and his also belong to the owner, not to their partners. Sex is suppose to be a beautiful thing to share with your significant other. Not something that you feel forced into having. Talk with him and let him know that you want to have a more mature relationship and that if he cannot accept that there are times when you want to be with him without being sexual then tell him it's time he hits the road. Then go and find yourself a boyfriend who will respect you and your wishes and treat you as an equal and not a sex toy. Be brave and good luck to you.
2007-08-01 15:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the male gender has a hormone called testosterone. Testosterone is a hormone that drives men to want to have sex. It's how people reproduce.
Also, another reason. Is perhaps you guys don't have any time to do anything else. Like, if all you do is go over to his house, then of course he's going to want to do that. So, my suggestion? Either, try to spend some time going out for coffee, going to movies, doing each others favorites sport, sharing a smoothie,....or...break up. I'm not leading you to break up right away. Just try something new. Plus, maybe ask him why he wants to have sex all the time.
2007-08-01 15:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his libido is a slight bit higher than yours. Try communicating how you feel about the situation and see if that makes a difference or not. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable and is this his first sexual relationship, that could be a big factor too?
2007-08-01 15:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by letgoletflow26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a male
Once a couple has sex that often becomes a focus for a while
He's a male
You give in
He's a male
Hormones
...oh, and did I mention he wants to have sex with you because he's a male?
2007-08-01 15:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This makes me snort- There are alot of girls at right here asserting issues like "it s your physique" and "don t do it in case you don t desire to". those women are maximum in all probability single and could on no account save a guy in an prolonged term relationship. the fact is that when you re in a relationship with a guy then you truly are there to fulfill each others desires. You curiously love him yet you may t be stricken to open your legs for 10-30 minutes on the top of the evening then you truly of course are no longer fascinated in retaining him happy... have confidence me when I say this, while you're are no longer keen to place the attempt in with intercourse then your relationship will crumple by way of fact adult males want intercourse. we could positioned issues into context right here: we could say you like intercourse as quickly as a week and he needs it on a daily basis- then why no longer compromise with him and do it 4 situations a week? positioned the attempt in in case you desire to maintain him. ultimately, i want you to comprehend that all and sundry adult males are the comparable- you need to circulate onto yet another one inspite of the incontrovertible fact that it s probable that the comparable factor will happen.
2016-10-13 10:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's horny 24/7. If you don't want to do it every time you see him and get "talked into it" then you should break it off. He should be more respectful of you.
2007-08-01 15:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby did the same thing b4 we were married, I made a huge mistake when I got married to him. Dump him and find some one worth spending your time with. There are decent men out there. You need to find one that cares about your feelings.
2007-08-01 15:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen i know what men like........and girl i gotta tell ya.....Men have sex then open up and can be very loving and caring.....almost like they need the sex to relax ...Women need a reason to have sex, that's where the romance comes in.......Its strange!~
2007-08-01 15:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by ask me a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋