This is pretty werid...?

Question

is it ok to love someone over the internet?

Answer 1

no.. it's not quite okay.. You can be infatuated.. but love is all encompassing and unconditional... Unfortunately- the Internet lacks non-verbal communication which is equally as important as verbal communication. Also, one thing I noticed about on line relationships (from experience) is that is gets weird when you start spending time with this person you love face to face... You've talked about so much over the Internet that you become comfortable with that method of communicating.

I would say- before you really believe you are in love with someone- make sure you spend and equal amount of time with this person face to face..

Not saying that love cannot stem from an on line relationship- just saying it's hard to truly be in love with someone without them really being around physically.

Answer 2

No dear. I do have two friends that met their significant others on the internet, but they are yet to meet and claim they are in love. But, how do they know that they have any chemistry or anything and what is it that makes it a relationship and not just a really good friendship if there are none of the things you do with people face to face when you're in a "normal" relationship?

Answer 3

I know a few couples who met on the net and really fell and love and are married now....

but they are adults, which I doubt you are, so NO, this is not good for you....there are people out there who lie on the internet, and it isn't safe....and NEVER agree to meet the person alone!!! or even with a kid your age....only if adults would be around, but I highly doubt they would approve of it either!

Good luck, and be safe!

Answer 4

Just be very careful about meeting people on the Internet. The majority of them lie about them selves, their pics aren't even of them, & you don't know what to honestly believe. You'd really be chancing it as anyone can write anything they want about themselves. Most of all, NEVER meet someone you met on the Internet. You're taking your life in your own hands regardless of how safe they percieve themselves to be. IF you do decide just to meet one another, I would NOT go by myself. I would not want to end up a stastic. Use your own judgement, but still, remember you're dealing w/a complete stranger regardless of how you feel.

Answer 5

well how long have u known this person. and how well do u know them. if its like a weird crush then yeah its wrong but if uve been talkin for along time and really fel a connection then u should get a number or sumthin and see how you two act wen ur actually talkin to eachptha.
its easier to say things on the comp than it is to say in person sometimes i think.

Answer 6

You may really like the person...but how can you say you love them when you only know their online personality..people tend to be different in real life...and there are many things you don't know yet

Answer 7

not really cus then u dont even know them..u cant love someone without truly knowing them..unless uve met them in person... otherwise sorry to be blunt but u have a sad life..

Answer 8

i guess, but you need to make sure it is true. that person cold be very different in person and online we can be anonymous, pretty, and a lot of different things. We can be who we want to be and seem like who and what you want.

Answer 9

yeah, but teen love will most likely end in breakup

Answer 10

its not weird everyone wants what they cant have but remember that you dont no who your talking to they could b 80yrsold or they could b 12yrsold you just never no