I'm scared, I'm a virgin. Does it hurt. I love him soooo much. should I wait till' we're married? WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
2007-08-01 15:13:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 25 not 12, where did you get that?
2007-08-01 15:27:41 · update #1
Sweetie, please, don't fall for it. If you love him so much, then please, don't tempt him into this. Sure, s e x feels good for the first five minutes, but the consequences are long lasting. What if you get an STD? What if you get pregnant? What if he leaves you?
If your boyfriend really loves you, this issue shouldn't matter to him. Wouldn't you rather give your future husband your virginity? It's the one gift that you can never give out again... Trust me, it pays off to wait... : )
2007-08-01 15:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by moJo Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth waiting for. If he's the right guy he will wait for you. I was always told "why get married if the milk is free from the cow". Another words, this guy loves you know and you love him but what happens after you have sex? Some guys are just out for one thing, then they leave. Leaving you feel like a complete fool. Not too mention are you ready for a baby or worse a disease? No man is worth that! And if he loves you enough, he'll marry you. Then the honeymoon will be SO exciting. Otherwise, what's a honeymoon after you've already had sex? Do yourself a favor and wait. There may be more guys in your life and you want to save yourself for Mr. Right for the rest of your life to have each other.
2007-08-01 22:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by candycane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok honestly I dont know your religion or anything but most religions say you shouldn't have sex until you're married and really you shouldn't until you're married there are thousands of diseases some small most large condoms only protect 75 percent and then you could get pregnant also if you and your future huband both save your virginity then there will be a chemical relesed during sex that will cause only to love that person having sex with him will not only mess up the bond you'll have with your husband but also the bond he'll have with his wife if you really love him you'd want him to have the best life possible even aftr you're not with him
2007-08-01 22:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by lil c maine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people have sex before marriage, they violate a spiritual law. Sex is only sanctioned within the marriage relationship because through it, a husband and wife join together physically to become one. It is an act, or law established by God to make the relationship stronger. When you violate the purity of the sexual act by having sex before marriage, physical, emotional and psychological changes take place in both people. For the most part, those changes are not for the better. Having sex before you are married paves the way for emotional turmoil and possible heartache. Why do you feel that you need to show your boyfriend how much you love him by dishonoring your body before marriage? If he truly loves you, then he will wait until you are married. Ask God to help you keep your virginity and try and find other ways to show your boyfriend that you love him besides defiling your heart, soul and your body by commiting the act of fornication against God and your body. You defile your body when you have sex before marriage. So, I hope that you will keep your virginity and wait for marriage and that committement. All the best!!
2007-08-01 22:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you truely love him and you've been together for along time then i say go ahead! As long as you trust him and you now he won't leave you anytime soon then your safe. Make sure you wear a condom! It kind of hurted for me my first time(17), i bled a little because when the hymen breaks usualy alittle blood appears. Don't worry it won't gush out or anything lol! Tell him to go gently and slow in the begining. Make sure your in a comfy position. Missionary is best for first timers because you feel secure in that position! Good luck! First times arn't as enjoyable as 3rd or 4th when it starts to get fun without any pain. Your body is ajusting to the changes the second and first times.
2007-08-01 22:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to do it then it shouldn't matter to you if it hurts or not. anyway If u love him then u should wait till you get married to him and have sex later on. caz onces your gonna have sex with him ur gonna find out that it was not love and the marriage is not going to take place then. Good Luck
2007-08-01 22:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, do yourself a favor and wait. If you have sex then your whole life will change. The rewards and pleasure are only for a moment. However, the consequences can be mental, physical, and spiritual. You should be scared because this emotion may only be temporarily.
2007-08-01 22:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by spencer4571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, Wait, Wait!!! Are you ready??? Are you sure the person is the right one??? The first time it hurts physically and can hurt emotionally. Make sure you make the right decision it will live with you forever.
2007-08-01 22:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by BabiGurl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WAIT.... Unless of course your ready to be a mother this soon, which you really are not... wait till after yous are married... make sure you want him to be the one...
2007-08-01 22:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by I Heart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are truly ready. There is no point in rushing into having sex. Yes, your first time can hurt or be uncomfortable.
2007-08-01 22:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by hot47qt 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋