So two years ago I dated this guy who I was really hung up over. He was verbally abusive and always gave excuses why he couldn't see me. He broke it off w/ me twice, the 2nd time was final. He ran his mouth 2 everyone that I was needy and obsessive, psycho, etc. I did things w/ him I'm not proud of. Now 2 years later all that he said still haunts me and when he sees me he flirts/hugs other girls thinking it will still hurt me but it doesnt. Should I confront him when I see him? None of his friends have any respect for me whatsoever. It's overall a crappy situation. We are both in college now, this happened in high school. Any advice?
2007-08-01 10:49:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you even worried about getting back at an abuser. He didn't care about you, hurt you and you need to put this seriously tragic situation behind you, use your heart of gold & reach out to a real man...something he wasn't and will never be.
2007-08-01 10:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and his friends. Chances are any woman that gets with him will be treated the same way, and he will earn a bad reputation. The more you protest to him. The more lies he'll make up. If your friends really know you, they'll know how full of crap he is. There is an old saying " you can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all of the people all of the time." Meaning, sooner or later people will start seeing through he bullcrap, and the further you distance yourself from the illusion he has painted about you the better off you'll be.
2007-08-01 18:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by rlstaehle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋