So this guy I hooked up with once IMed me to see how I was doing since im pregnant (not his baby). Well for some reason we started talking about the time we hooked up and we both got kinda turned on. He had a gf when we were together 8 months ago and they are still together now. I kno i shouldnt be flirting with him but for some reason i cant help it. He keeps saying how he misses kissing me and he can't help that he wants me. What should I do? Is it ok to keep flirting as long as we arent doing anything?
2007-08-01 10:38:30 · 18 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find your own man to flirt with. Would you want some girl flirting with your man?
2007-08-01 10:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, its not okay.
If you flirt then what's the message you're presenting? You're saying, "I don't care if you have a gf, we can still do it for fun." You've got to grow up and take some responsibility for your future... I know he keeps coming on you, but that's just his hormones running.
2007-08-01 10:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playing with fire will always seem exciting, but just remember that someone will always get burned, and chances are it will be you who will end up crying. You know full well what your flirting will lead to, or at least you are hoping for it. He probably knows that, and will play you as far as you will let him.
2007-08-01 10:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Want me to flirt with you instead?
Your asking for trouble with him. He's obviously just using you to get some booty.
2007-08-01 10:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by cloned247 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question.
He is doing this with his current girlfriend. So what if he decides that he wants to be with you and leaves his girlfriend... what is going to stop him from doing the same thing to you?
2007-08-01 10:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I flirt with a girl who had a bf and she didn't seem to mind, she was quite flattered
2007-08-01 10:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls always be hittin on me when i have a gf but once im single i gotta go get them...
always
2007-08-01 10:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Michelle, it wrong, what goes around comes around.
2007-08-01 10:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you, he would break up with his girlfriend and come ask you out.
2007-08-01 10:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by picns 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, not cool. That's break up material in my book.
2007-08-01 10:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Justin H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋