Does this really work? i always show my partner that i care, that i love him so much... i never can get really mad... and i think he takes me for granted because they know u will always be there no matter wat?
2007-08-01 10:14:48 · 20 answers · asked by lissettedabomb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing juvenile or dishonest about playing hard to get. Picture a girl as a cute little kitty. And picture yourself as a playful string. Notice that as long as you dangle that string (yourself) juuuuust out of the kitties' reach, it'll go mental trying to get that string, but as soon as you give it to the kitty, it begins to lose interest.
That's how it works condensed in a paragraph.
2007-08-01 10:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to not play games. But, up front and honest, that's what really works. Each person gives loves and feels love in a different way. You like to SHOW your partner that you care and love him by being a certain way. You need to figure out how you know you are loved. Do you need to HEAR the words, RECEIVE things like flowers, have him SHOW you love by trusting you to be out with your friends, etc? Once you figure out what specifically your way of feeling love is, explain it to him and give him a chance to show you. Communication is key.
2007-08-01 10:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that showing you care is really important because it DOES show them you will be there. But at the same time you DO have to play hard to get in a way. More like just being comfortable in yourself and being your own person. That will show them that you are alright if you are away from each other. They can't be your life. You stand on your own and have confidence and that will be admired.
2007-08-01 10:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems to be the case, but it really comes down to the person! I'm like you: I always showed this person attention and always let them know how much I cared. I was always there for him for years. But that's how long it took for him to appreciate... only me! It did seem like playing hard to get got his attention, but.. that wasn't me! Be yourself! This is the man I ended up marrying. When he matured, and got through his "flirt with every girl" stage, he realized who was really there for him throughout the years!!
So I guess my advice is... be yourself, and if the person doesn't recognize how wonderful you are... move on. Maybe when you're gone he'll realize what he's missing. :)
2007-08-01 10:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Easy recipes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a balance. Showing you love and care for them is great, but there needs to be that thought in the back of their mind that if you wanted to, you could go date other people. That you still "got it".
Otherwise, you become ordinary. The challenge is completely lost. And everyone loves a good challenge.
2007-08-01 10:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by I<3tigersrawr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. I have noticed if there is a real attractive girl who gets alot of attention and I ignore her she makes a special effort to talk to me. Rejection is not a option to people like this. Its all about acceptance.
2007-08-01 10:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by J Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your "needy" acting. Always hanging on every word, always needing to be reasured. Saying I love you toooooo many times you see or talk to each other. If your a needy, clinging kind of a person....and this also believe it or not applies to the guys as well, the other person will see it.
2007-08-01 10:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this method all depends. In your case I would stop doing all the things that he takes for granted and then he will appreciate you for all the things you do. Or you can really just tell him how you feel.
2007-08-01 10:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Copper Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 03:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
showing no interest SOMETIMES works for the good. You can't always be the sucker of the relationship but at the same time don't go overboard to the extreme.
2007-08-01 10:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Con4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋