Queen of b**** and she NEVER has money. It's gotten to the point where everything she does or says is annoying. I have been trying to ignore it. But i can't take it anymore. What should I do.
2007-08-01 09:06:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
sounds like we work with the same person! except i call the lady here at my work "the evil troll" because that is what she looks like. she purposely goes out of her way to be rude and mean. i just ignore her. do you have head phones you can listen to? that may help take your mind off of your co-worker.
2007-08-01 10:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by thejenns22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out back and punch her in the face. Continue to punch non stop until she falls down then kick her at least 30 times in the stomach, head, chest. Reach over for the trash can lid and commence to beat her down with that. until she is nothing but a bloody pulp. Then stop. Look at her and say "Opps. Sorry I thought you were Brenda.", and walk away. (You may want to substitute Brenda for the name of the nicest person you and the beatdown victim would commonly know.)
She'll stay away from you simply because you're Nuckin' Futs.
2007-08-01 16:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Rod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay... there are several different ways to approach it.
First off, you cannot change her, but you can only change your thoughts & feelings towards her. If you don't give ther the attention she apparently wants, she will move on to bother someone else who will listen.
Don't give the mooch any money. When she gets in your face to say something unsavory, blandly look her in the eye and say, "I have nothing to say to that." and then go back to your work. That will diffuse her by not allowing her to drag you into her drama.
You are at that place to WORK, so do just that to the best of your ability. If you can at all avoid her, please do so. If she is more senior in your department, go around her for answers.
You can possibly ask for a transfer to another work area.
The other thing is to do a prayer and visualization. If she is that annoying, you can choose to talk to God and "box her in" in a box of METALLIC GOLD LIGHT from the heart of God. Visualize that metallic gold light box in place around her where ever she goes and program it in your thoughts to stay there, and remind yourself every so often that it is there.
You are just boxing her funk in with her... kind of like putting a tight lid on something stinky so the stink cannot escape and bother you. Your ONLY intent is to keep her funk away from you and the other people working there. She will eventually get tired of stewing in her own juice. I know several people who applied this and the idiot they boxed in got so tired of it that they quit.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Make sure you put on your own "cosmic condom" every morning... you go into prayer and ask God to fill you up with His protective metallic gold light, pouring in through the top of your head, filling up your whole body, and spilling out of your chakras and filling up your whole aura all the way 8 feet out from your body in every direction. Visualize it and feel it in place. Feel protected and shielded. Remind yourself that it is there through out the day. No funk can penetrate that. This is especially good if you have several funky people at the job.
2007-08-01 16:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her actions are completely unprofessional and creating a hostile work enviroment - talk to Human Resources and tell them your concerns. Be sure to point out how you feel its hurting the business or effecting others from getting their work done. Be sure to have some facts or examples and avoid gossip and rumors. You want your claim to be legit.
They should talk to her.
I went thru the same thing at my work. Man was it frustrating!
Hopefully yor HR or Manager will talk with her & things will change! Good Luck!
2007-08-01 16:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by mbschlosser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boss but try not to say ne thing too rude or that might make things more uncomfortable, and if your boss doesnt care talk to the person and ask her why she is like that. my guess would be that shes so insecure that she is just jealous of you, or she just wants to act like she is better than you . or just start acting like her and maybe shell get the point . lol if u cant beat em... laugh at everything she says
2007-08-01 16:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame her be smart don't let her feelings get so low she will do something bad.. but shame her and make her think use every tool you have available and every person you can.. but observe your enemies well Allah SWT told you that over 1428 years ago and left you the guidance against ignorance.
2007-08-01 16:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
What does not having money have to do with anything? I think you're the one with the problem.
2007-08-01 16:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how annoyin shez been lol
2007-08-01 16:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by xx.angel.xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋