My cousin is 34 and not mariied she is the most attractive, sweetiest. sexiest, and very very socialble person. She is very well educated and has a high income. However will never show it.
Once men get serious with a man ( believe me they fall) they either become scared, intimadated, or jealous.....She wants a family and feels in despair.
However; her looks are stunning and best of her spirituality and sensibility can make anyone fall in love with her, why do men run?
2007-08-01 07:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by Bea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men who reveal a jealous characteristic tend to be those who lack confidence on some level. When men get jealous, it’s usually aimed at insecurity and the thought of losing the one they care about. If you believe that there is someone else who can make the woman you’re with happier than you can, then you could have some jealous tendencies. In addition, if you notice a significant dissatisfaction in your mates overall happiness in the relationship, it can also cause insecurities. These issues must be addressed in order to secure your confidence and prevent jealousy.
2007-08-02 04:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to move too fast. Just becuz the fall in love with her, doesn't mean that they want to marry her and start a family any time soon.
And I am sure you know that when a woman makes more than a man it can be a blow to the man's ego. It CAN intimidate them and make them not feel as needed as they would like to be. This could also make them feel jealous. I mean society makes the man still to this day as the bread winner and many men still what it that way. They want a woman who brings in money but as long as it is not more than him their cool. I know it seems petty to us, but they think they can deal with it until someone asks about her financial status. Once that happens he questions his worth.
All this means is that she needs to wait for someone who can love her and her status. I understand that she longs for a family, but she doesn't need to rush into anything. Mr. Right WILL come. But she had to learn this lesson before she met him. There is something that she needs to take away from this. Everything happens for a reason. She will learn the reason for this soon enough. Good Luck sweetie.
2007-08-01 14:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by handvict81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not certain if it's because she won't have sex with them or if she shows how desperate she is, however subtly. Men don't like either of these scenarios and will run as fast as their legs will carry them. As far as a jealous man goes, he usually takes it to extremes and becomes a wife beater. It's a matter of control over a woman and possessiveness. In this case, she should be the one doing the running.
2007-08-01 14:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by CarolSandyToes1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a problem somewhere. Maybe it is her that decides he is not for her and does something to run him off. I might see some men getting intimidated or jealous but surely not all of them. Maybe her standers are set to high or something like that.
2007-08-01 14:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No jealous is not equivalent to love because one a person jealous theirs hatred deep inside her or his heart and and will form into anger and after they will separate each other but for others said no jealous no love which is not true if you love someone theirs understanding between you/
2007-08-01 14:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by modesta c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... (over)jealousy is usually signs of insecurities & a controlling streak.
2007-08-01 14:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she moves too fast with the family stuff
2007-08-01 14:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SI BELLA EL SER CELOSO EQUIVALENTE A AMOR
2007-08-01 17:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Loli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they figure she will leave them someday so they want to just get it over with and leave her first.
and...jealously does NOT equal love. at all.
2007-08-01 14:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋