i don't know what is so attractive about me to all my male friends. i can't have any guy friends anymore really, bc they all fall for me. i honestly don't know how or y! what do u think of this. i am 5'1.5", i have brown eyes(depending upon which way i'm looking, toward the sun or away, if they are light or dark), i weigh 177, but u can't tell by looking at me, i have shoulder lengh brown hair(just dyed, faded red), i'm told i have a big butt, i have perfectly aligned teeth (with a small gap in the front), i wear a size 38c bra, and i have a lil pudge. i don't find any of that sexy, but they do. and i don't know y. i like to party, drag race, and have fun. i don't drink, do drugs, or anything like that. i flirt a lot, but they know i'm kidding. i'm a big flirt, my bf knows that. but i dunno what is so hot. i love to write, read, do pranks, and drive. but i still can't figure it out. im in need of advice on how to turn them off. or atleast tell me what is so attractive!!!! plz, help!!!!
2007-08-01 07:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't find you attractive at all. I find this post to be bragging and self-centered and I see nothing in your post about developing your mind, it's all about having fun and your body, which by your own admission, isn't that great.
Perhaps your flirting isn't perceived by them as "kidding", they think you are serious. Running around acting like a tease is only going to get you seriously hurt one day.
2007-08-01 07:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I keep saying in my advice pieces that personality is 80% of the attraction. You’re probably a gal with a big personality that guys like (especially if you have common interests) and you flirt a lot… another thing guys like. The problem is that our Y chromosome sometimes doesn’t allow us to know that you are “just kidding” when you’re flirting, so we get signals crossed.
Unfortunately there is little you can do except become a snow-suit wearing shut in who has only a dozen cats to keep her company, or just stop leading your guy friends on.
2007-08-01 15:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by Zero 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you are very attractive and not too girlie to hang out with. That's what gets them every time. They like you because you're attractive, down to earth and don't feel like you're above hanging out with them. That's basically what most guys look for in a girl. There just aren't many of those around. Guys would much rather have that than some perfect body stuck up chick they can't even hold a conversation with.
2007-08-01 14:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by jwsou812 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's the flirting. Guys think a woman who flirts sees something in them, and they want to try. I'd suggest for the sake of your BF, that you tone it down a bit, or save it all for him.
2007-08-01 14:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Zee 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my first guess is that they r guys, and they r hormonal typical guys, lol but to be honest as a man of 35, i tend to go more for the beauty within rather what is outside, if the outside is just as beautiful then is a bonus, ever stepped back and thought perhaps u r just a beautiful person......
2007-08-01 14:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by greek 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your body description sounds like you were built for sex. start wearing big baggy sweatclothes and lay off the showering for a couple days in a row. and dont shave anything
2007-08-01 14:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by juicy d 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hi :do the following
1.ur face should grimace always
2.donot smile
3.donot eat in front of anyone
4.cut ur hair
5.wear a48 bra.6.
2007-08-01 14:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by foze a 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get over yourself
2007-08-01 14:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by flying.guy_canada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop ur flirting, ur giving the wrong signals.
2007-08-01 14:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
date every single 1 of them and c how it goes...and yes i didnt read a word u said cept for the 1 sentence!
:-)
2007-08-01 14:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋