have you ever cheated?

Question

as anyone ever cheated, if so did you feel really bad after? and did you tell your boygriend/girlfriend or not?

Answer 1

ALWAYS...LOL...I HAVE TO DO WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO SURVIVE....BUT IF I DO FIND THAT ONE I WOULD BE TRUE TO THEM.....

Answer 2

I never cheated when I was married, ever. For some unknown reason to me, several people in my first husbands family have always said that I did. I finally said to myself that God knows I'm telling the truth and thats all that matters to me. I've had boyfriends cheat on me and that felt awful. I have in my lifetime been with a couple of married men which I know I shouldn't have done, but at the time I felt like they were making a worse mistake than me.....and yes, I feel bad about it now. I'm just human and I've made mistakes.

Answer 3

Yes. The first time, yes. He was a good guy and didn't deserve it, but he was also about a thousand miles away (literally). After that, I didn't cheat on my next few boyfriends, but then the last one I had I did, and I didn't really feel bad about it. He was an abusive alcoholic, and I was on my way out of that relationship, anyway (officially broke up with him about a week later), so I don't think it made that much difference. I didn't tell him. I told the first guy.

Answer 4

I don't believe in cheating if you are unhappy then move on and end the relationship. Lies and deceit do not accomplish anything positive. Why be with someone if you are unhappy...

Relationships are a commitment of trust and understanding of one another feelings and desires. So talk and try to understand the other if you can't come to a happy medium together then move on and end the relationship. All things take work to get it right and no one gets it right the first time. That's why it is important to communicate feelings and emotions with each other.

Answer 5

I have been with my wife for 15 years and have never cheated. But I did cheat on a girlfriend once and I felt like a total loser for being too weak to honor my committment.

Answer 6

Abso-f*cking-lutely!!!

And NOPE I never felt a single pang of guilt!!! Infact, I think it was well and truely deserved, after all, if I was being lavished with the attention, adoration and total dedication I deserve then I wouldnt have cheated in the first place.

Besides, its all good fun and no harm and extremely exciting!!!!!

A great woman once said "What they don't know don't hurt"
(What a woman!!!)

Answer 7

my girlfriend cheated on me, she told me the day afterwards and we didn't break up. She didn't tell me the ful story though and accidently made some comment about some details she had left out half a year earlier. the lying and leaving out details hurt the most.

Answer 8

Yes, and I did it for all the wrong reason. He had done it and I did it for payback. It felt good at the time, but I knew I was better than that so I beat myself up about it for a long time. Cause two wrong doesn't make it wright it just makes it even.

Answer 9

i have never cheated on any of my girlfriends but i did have a girlfriend that cheated on me for 3 months she did not tell me i found out

Hoped i helped :)

Answer 10

I didn't cheat on any of my partners, but I was party to cheating with a married man. I didn't like the way I felt about myself at all later...it wasn't who I wanted to be, and I knew by doing it I'd okayed it to be done to me (and I didn't want that!)

I'll be working off that bad karma for a while...

Answer 11

no i would respect myself, the significant other and the relationship before i would lie, be dishonest and disrespectful..if there is an issue in the relationship act like an adult, communicate the concerns, and try to fix it...if that doesnt work than we end the relationship and hopefully find someone that will be compatible with us