After making the decision to get back with ex-boyfriend, the man that I was seeing became very upset with my decision.
Could this be a sign that he is in love with me? What are some ways a woman can tell if a man is in love with her?
2007-08-01 07:16:10 · 17 answers · asked by willow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jealousy is a sign of extremely low self-esteem. there is no room for jealousy in any relationship. it's a destructive way of living.
is your guy upset or jealous? there is a difference between fear of losing a relationship, and being plain jealous.
perhaps your guy cares for you and doesn't want to lose you?
the best way to tell if he is in love with you is when he says "i love you".... don't look for signs, let a person's feelings develop. it takes some people longer than others to feel they are in love. it's not something you pressure a person to do... otherwise you might just scare them off.
take care. perhaps you might consider stop worrying about love, and enjoy the fact you have someone nice to spend time with... love will come in it's good time.
2007-08-01 07:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not exactly call that jealousy. It could be better characterized as mismanaged expectations. Your breaking up with him and going back to an ex, what man would not be very upset about that?
Jealousy in the "night-stalking restraining-order" vein is not love but control. Love is wanting the best for you even if it means that you may not be the right person for him. Thats a big statement, but if he is secure with it he knows that if your not the right person that only means there is someone else out there that is!
2007-08-01 14:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more like he is possessive and controlling. I think it has to do more with jealousy and also with the fact that you've basically rejected him. And no jealousy is not a sign of love. More like insercurity
2007-08-01 14:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... all of us have a little bit of jealousy for our loved ones in us... If it is in control, it is ok to be jealous. When it is way too much, then you have a controlling person in your hands.
Some ways a woman can tell if a man loves her is - he cares for you, he wants to be near you, he connects himself to you regularly thru meeting you or keeping in touch with you, he doesn't lie & he goes the extra mile to do things for you to please you.
2007-08-01 14:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy in the wrong way, such as in your case, is a sign (red flag) that a man will be abusive to you
2007-08-01 14:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! JEALOUSY = lt is a sign of deep insecurity,....
However in your case, l can sympathise with the man you are currently 'dating' and understand his feelings of hurt, l mean you ditching him so suddenly has got to hurt... and for your ex no less!
He must feel so used!
2007-08-01 14:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy can be a sign of insecurity. it doesn't always have to be love.
2007-08-01 14:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by junkster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this case is jealousy as much as he just got dumped and he liked you and wants to be with you.
Generally, jealousy=insecure.
2007-08-01 14:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well duh, you ditched him for someone else. Of course he got upset. No, jealousy is not about love, it's about insecurity. You are not dealing with jealousy though. Jealousy would have been him getting upset because you still talked to your ex.
2007-08-01 14:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be.........or he was there when u was hurt and watching and helped u through the hard times, and thinks ur nuts 4 wanting 2 go through it again.
U may also want 2 talk 2 him, he may have those feeling, like u do.
2007-08-01 14:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋