2007-08-01 06:33:50 · 14 answers · asked by Nourhan 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
if we can not say any thing good say nothing . Let your teeth and lips guard yout tounge and count to 40. only do to other as you wish for your self
2007-08-01 08:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by mikail brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think saying something behine someone's back is worse. If someone tells something bad to you to your face, they're being at least being honest. If someone talks behind your back, it's worse because that makes them backbiters and it some cases liars.
Peace.
2007-08-01 13:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥IslamForever♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Behind their back.
People should always be given the option to defend any statement made about them, or to set any misgiving straight. When things are said not in their presence, words get twisted and things can (and often do) get out of hand.
As a general rule, if you can't look someone in the eye and say it, you shouldn't be saying it behind their backs.
2007-08-01 14:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by sylvia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behind their back. Two reasons why: if you don't have the guts to say it to their face, you shouldn't say it at all, and if they hear what you say from someone else, it could be said not the way you intended.
2007-08-01 13:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking behind someone's back is never good if it's negative. If it's bad, if you can't say it right to their face, then you shouldn't say it at all! :)
2007-08-01 13:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Behind their back is worse ..... absolutely .. the truth needs to be told to the face, as GOD will tell us on the day of judgement.
If people are hurt by the truth ...... its to their own detriment. Everyone must be able to say the truth as they understand it in their hearts without reprimand nor persecution.
2007-08-01 14:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Asad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying it behind their back is meaningless, while saying it in their face may be to draw their attention to a bad thing about them so that they change it.
2007-08-01 13:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Green visitor is back :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be hundred times more hurt if it would be said behind my back....then I know the insult was for real
same way you know a compliment is genuine if you hear it second hand.....
2007-08-01 16:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by MiniEinstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are bad, you just need to say things in a tactful manner.
2007-08-01 13:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by yorkmaybeblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behind there back
2007-08-01 17:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by pretty flower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋