so they say things to confuse you, to make you think...plus if the people that do it, somehow now about your mental health problems and the fact that youve struggled hardship all your life, so they feel your an easy victim, easy to patronise..
and they continue to play mind games so that youll lose it and ruin your life...plus its hard to fight against it, because youve suffered alot and have rage problems to...
i no this is an unusual situation, but id rather you not question it, but simply tell me what would you do to fight against that situation?
2007-08-01 06:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
plus if you do get angry, and rage surfaces...you see them happy, smiling and grinning hugely like theyve won some game over you...
how you deal with that?
black, white, asian, i dont care, i just want your views please, thanks
2007-08-01 06:31:02 · update #1
show them your and psyco put the fear of god in em. always stopped people from messing with me.
2007-08-08 18:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by William W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing would be to just avoid those people. That doesn't always work though, especially if they are co-workers/fellow students. Those people are the worst kind of people. First, I would remember that I know me. I would remember that this is just a game to them, and then decide not to play. Smile, even if inside your are screaming mad. Start saying things like "why thank you" if they try to insult you or something. This just lets them know that YOU know they are messing with you and that your not playing anymore. If you do get mad and react, you can just blow it off or joke about it the next time you see them. Even if you do struggle mentally, if you can just fake it in front of them, or give them the silent treatment long enough to get alone, they will soon find someone else to pick on. Remember, this is their problem, their wrong, their issue. They have to pick on you to feel good about themselves (which makes them messed up in their own right). You just worry about you and taking care of yourself, and do your best to avoid those kinds of people.
2007-08-01 06:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jenster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not lying, I;ve been in the same exact situation, these people are evil, you have to not get involved or take part in their games, silence is the golden, don't talk to these people, they are sick & evil....
avoid them at all costs if you can, donot talk to them if you are able to, & if you're forced to, look away from them & talk as little as possible, be powerful in God's help, knowing you're doing the right thing by nit cooperating with evil & let them know you want to have nothing to do with them, nothing, nothing, nothing...
I swear I;ve been through this for a long time, & like you, nobody belives me, but the more you give them attention, the happier they get, stay away....
2007-08-01 08:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I do any mind messin' it's with my MIL... she is sooo fussy. We'll tweek a picture or a lamp cord so it's just ever so slightly off center. She knows we do it and she's pretty cool about it because she knows we are just kidding around.
But to do what you're describing... I cannot stand that kind of torture.
It's one thing to joke around; but to play mind games to the point of hurting someone is something entirely different.
If these are people that you are hanging around that are doing this; I would say it's time to empower yourself and seek friendship in a new circle.
Good luck to ya bud! I truly wish you the best.
2007-08-01 19:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Totem 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what i would probably do is first break down and cry just when i didn't want anyone to know i was hurt; next i would begin to feel completely ostracized from society; then i would get so down on myself that no one would want to be around me {further antagonizing my negative self-debasing mind-set} and soon i would be imagining scenarios of my suicide... classic textbook
behavior for a bipolar with low self-esteem.
but i'm trying to change this behavior and it doesn't come quickly or easily. i can only try to stop myself from the final, fatal outcome...because i just want to be happy and suicide won't ever bring that... let's talk through my private email from time to time because i'm afraid that if you run out of points for questions, you'll be lost and this lovechild wants you to be a friend and feel better
2007-08-01 09:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, perhaps you would do best to see a doctor and talk to him or her about the feelings you are describing.
i can't diagnose you, but it sounds as if you're suffering from a little paranoia.
if you can remember it's YOUR LIFE and YOU are the only one who can control it, it might help a little. Keep reminding yourself that you are in control of your body, mind and life.
I'm hoping things will start looking better for you, and that you can get the good help you deserve.
2007-08-01 06:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ignore people who you think they play mind games with you.
2007-08-01 10:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them.
2007-08-07 07:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Karenita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ignore people like that and stay away from them.some people like for others to be miserable and they love playing mind games.
2007-08-01 06:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can let them win, or you can completely ignore them...why give them what they want...don't ever succumb to the idiosy of others...the types that have to feel superior, by making you feel as low as they can get to to go...then you have given them what they want. Ignore them, be strong...laugh at them...let them know you are one boy who isn't going to be a part of their inferiority complex's. ignore, don't ever let them see you sweat, if you know what i mean.
2007-08-01 08:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋