Im so totally confused. I've liked this guy on and off since grade 4 (6 years ago) and he has liked me the same as well. Now he has a girlfriend. He calls me pritty much everynight, and we talk for hours. Sometimes we wont talk for a couple of months then he'll suddenly call me up and we'll talk all night. It's never awkard between us. BUT he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. It seems like he's totally into me. We hung out a couple nights ago with a group, then the two of us walked to his house to grab some stuff. It wasn't awkward, but I could feel this tension there, like we both wanted each other. SOOO confusing!! Suggestions please??
2007-08-01 06:03:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and he does know how I feel, just maybe not to the true extent.
2007-08-01 06:09:33 · update #1
If he has a girlfriend, then there is your answer. You may really like this guy. But, you cannot date him and you shouldn't even try to date him if he has a girlfriend. If he decided to do something with you when he is already in a relationship and ends up dating you, then how could you EVER trust him? Don't get into that situation. It will only end in heartache.
2007-08-01 06:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another answerer said this in a different question, but I believe it is true. Take away the part of the sentence before the but and read it. The sentence reads "he has a girlfriend"
He's off limits until that relationship is over. It's great to be friends with him and talk, but don't try to break it up. I can understand you having feelings for him. Just because you do doesn't mean you should act on them.
2007-08-01 06:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that you and him are chatting every so often and it is like nothing has happened, If his relationship with hsi girlfriend means anything to him he will chat with you as a friend and chat about things that are appropriate, you have to let him know that you are not comfortable about chatting with on certain things knowing he has a girlfriend and wondering how she feels about it and if she knows anything about. You either become friends with him or break complete and go your seperate ways. This all depends on what you plan to tell him and how he plans to take it if you know that in detail about him. However if he is not serious about his girlfriend and wants to give this thing a try then he needs to break it to his girlfriend, only on his own terms and when he is ready. This is a situation you and him have to figure out but at the same time you have to know the boundaries.
2007-08-01 06:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Totally Get You. I'm Through That Now. But I'm Trying To Get Over Him Because I Know They'll Never Split Up. Maybe You Should.
2007-08-01 06:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sallymander 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he wants you as a girlfriend, but he doesn't want to tell his girlfriend. You guys are just friends right now. But when he breaks up with his girlfriend, he'll ask you to be his girlfriend. Don't worry. Good luck!!!
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2007-08-01 06:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know you are interested in dating him, them leave it up to him. If he doesn't break up with his girlfriend, but you continue to feel tension between the two of you, I would avoid seeing him. It's not fair to his current relationship if he is tempted by you. Would you want him to have tension between him and another girl if you were dating him instead? I would just let him know and leave the ball in his court. If he stays with her, move on and fine someone who is available! Just my opinion. Best wishes!
2007-08-01 06:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if he's not trying to have a relationship with you then it's not meant to be. He calls you because he knows you like him and it boosts his ego. He has a girlfriend which means he's emotionally unavailable. Move on, he's not the guy for you.
2007-08-01 06:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually asked him if he likes you? You may think he does, but he may just enjoy your company as "friends." Plus, he has a girlfriend. No offense, but if he liked you that much, he wouldn't be dating somebody else.
2007-08-01 06:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ready to Go Home! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to breakup a relationship but you guys should talk tell him that you like but you dont want to loose his friendship but you just have to be honest with him and that if youve made him uncomfortable your sorry but if he think you guys could be good together you should maybe give it a try
2007-08-01 06:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋