My husband's co-worker made an inappropriate call to him after hours on his cell (not the work cell). She got his # from his personnel file. I called her back, introduced myself & politely told her never to call my husband again outside of working hours & during business hours to use his work # if needed. I was civil & simply stated what I had to say then said thank you, good-bye. My husband works where we live. It's 2 weeks later & the co-worker reports another resident filed a complaint stating I yell @ her when she walks by. Not true. The woman is my neighbor & couldn't be nicer. She spoke with my husband about this & said it didn't happen - she never complained. Then offered to let management know that if we wanted. At this point, I've done nothing, though I am considering a formal complaint against the co-worker. She lied to retaliate because she didn't like me telling her to leave my husband alone. But that lie is on record & could affect my family's living situation. What to do?
2007-08-01 06:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Grá 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should have let your husband handle this in the first place. He is a grown man.
2007-08-01 06:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by skycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Entrapment. Hatch out a plan with your husband to get her to go on the record about the lie. This is tricky though and you will have to make her feel comfortable to do it. You'll need proof of her motives and what she's actually done.
2007-08-01 13:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by GeishaGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is the owner of this company not thta it should matter it is against the law to get into someones personal files at any job for your own use I would report this to the company owner and or manager.
2007-08-01 13:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by dadcat00759 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her and make sure you report where she got the personal phone #.
That should solve the whole problem.
Using Info from someones personal file for personal gain is ussually grounds for dismissal....
2007-08-01 13:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file the complaint then ............. you dont want to loose your living situation because some female that wants your husband and cant have him or can she? well i would file and make up lies that she is making rude comments or coming over and knocking on the door late at night......say something.
2007-08-01 13:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋