2007-08-01 05:44:18 · 23 answers · asked by TaSade Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you weren't wrong. No one should call you that. You are not a mistake. That assumes that you shouldn't have been born. That is NOT true. You are here because God wanted you to be born. God has a purpose for you. He has a reason for your being. You are NOT a mistake. You are a daughter of God.
2007-08-01 05:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..getting something for you. be right back. Okay, here it is. This was sent to me, so I'll share it with you
I can take a hint....things are about to change between us.
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...
not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
2007-08-01 12:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by bb jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I Think You did the right thing because if he said you were a mistake that means there is doubt inside him about you. You want someone who can appreciate you for who you are. The best part of breaking up is finding somone else you cant get enough of, someone who wants to be with you to. =)
2007-08-01 12:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. Him calling you a mistake was HIS mistake. You didn't do anything wrong.
2007-08-01 12:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. He made the biggest mistake ever calling u a mistake. If he can't see the gem he's hanging with, he needs to get his head checked
2007-08-01 12:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by sou chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a mistake.
2007-08-01 12:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The mistake was his all along. Good job dumping the jerk. You deserve better.
2007-08-01 12:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Deana S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course Not!... Never let a man or anyone for that matter belittle you or try to make you feel like you are nothing and or worth nothing under NO CIRCUMSTANCES!!. You stood your ground and handled it very well. YOU GO GIRL!!!!!
Now Who's The Mistake!!! :-)
2007-08-01 12:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Poetic1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wrong. It is very rude and insensitive to say that to someone. Especially someone you supposedly care about. Good job on dumping him; you'll be better off.
2007-08-01 12:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that good grounds to dump someone. i don't even know you and i know you're better than that. you don't need crap like that in your life. you're better off without him. you'll meet someone else who is so amazing, they'll sweep off your feet, and they will tell you are a blessing a gift from God, and the greatest thing to ever happen to them, and you won't even care about this anymore. be strong, you did the right thing.
2007-08-01 12:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by shdw313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋