I meet this girl when I was in the 9th grade and she was in the 7th. We talked for about 4 months then I went off to h. school. My best friend is in the same grade she's in and he said that she'd mention me frequently. Well now I'm goin be in 12 and she's goin be in 10. We haven't talked in like forever but I think about her more then ever. She's gorgeous, how should I go about approching her?
2007-08-01 05:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still have her number, just call her. Be honest, and up
front. Tell her the truth. That you'd been thinking about her, and
that it's been such a long time since you'd last seen or talked
to each other, you wanted to play 'catch up' and find out what
has been happening in her life. This happened to me by a
guy I'd gone with in early highschool. And he wanted to come
back into my life a year out of highschool.
But sad to say, for me, it was just too late. We'd both
changed too much. But maybe for you, it will be a beginning
since you didn't go with the girl, you were passing aquainten-
ces, right? Or were you really friends? "Talking for 4 mos"
doesn't really explain things. Well you have nothing to lose.
If she doesn't want to reconnect, she'll let you know. And if
you find she's not as you remember her, it may be a mutual
thing. But first satisfy your curiosity and call her or go by
where she lives. Who knows, what may be in store.
2007-08-01 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is like a problem i've had.
b4 anythin u hav 2 find a way 2 reach her by fone, email, anythin. then u ask her how she's been nd catch up on things. nd wen u hav tlked 4 about 2 weeks ask her very nicely jus brought up in a conversation if she wood like 2 go 2 the movies with u sometime. if she seys no, then jus try agen another time. nd as far as the grade goes, it doesn't matter how old a person is, if u like them nd they like u, then jus go for it. no problems!
~chels xO~
2007-08-01 12:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start sitting at her lunch table or something. Don't rush back into a situation. Slow and steady wins the race. Or maybe she's waiting for you to come and get her. But whatever i'm only as old as you are and been in the same situation. Just remember use your HEART not you BALLS!
2007-08-01 12:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some place where she goes or even at school. And meet her as you meet her accidentally after a long time. And after that all the talking is up to you bro......good luck!!!!
2007-08-01 12:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by DEVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up.......put one foot in front of the other.......POOF!!!
You approached her!!!
Just kidding, start by asking her what's been going on for the last 4 years! Then fill her in about you for the last 4 years, before you know it, it'll be late, but you guys will be talking again.....:)
Good luck
2007-08-01 12:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and talk to her casually and make it a daily thing...if she has ne internet chat thing talk to her on there............after you start talking to her for a while ask her to hang out like go out to eat or go to a sport event or something.....im sure youll do fine good luck!
2007-08-01 12:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by jean jacket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
how r u 12 and in highschool?
do u mean she was 7,and u were 9?
well,i would just say hi,how r u
then u can get to talking again.
2007-08-01 12:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥[[Thesweetestgurl]]B®i♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just be a friend for about a a week or two so you can catch up and then make your move
2007-08-01 12:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get your friend to get things out of her.... and then sometime ask her if she wants to hang out... and find out if she likes you, which hopefully she does.... best of luck.....
2007-08-01 12:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by Barca17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋