I was just in Denver with my aunt, and all around her house were pictures of her three children and their significant others - their wedding photos, their children, ect. It made me want my own wedding very bad, and sometimes I wanted it so bad my stomach kind of hurt. Is this normal at 13 years old?
2007-08-01 05:03:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's fine to dream. But I wouldn't start looking for a potential husband or rushing into relationships yet. If you think about ti too much you may end up clinging to the first guy you date, even though he's not right for you.
Instead, do things to work toward your ultimate goals. Do well in school and dream about college. Finishing your education is a great way to make sure you can pay for a wedding and take care of a family! Also college is a great time to really grow into a wonderful adult person and after that you'll be able the find that perfect someone and know you are ready to make big decisions like that.
So enjoy your youth! Dreaming is fine, but leave it at that for now. Start dreaming about all the wonderful school and career opportunities you have (and the prom!). ;)
Good luck and best wishes.
2007-08-01 05:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girls all dream about their perfect wedding, and there's nothing wrong with it. Guys on the other hand, aren't really the same when it comes to this- which is normal for them as well. But try not to let it get to your nerves too much. You will have a beautiful wedding someday, just try not to rush it when the time comes. Also remember that you will change how you want your wedding as the years go by :) I dreamt of my wedding when I was your age, and I'm getting married next year.... well, there are a few family members in it as I had chosen when I was 13, but friends have changed over the years, and so have colors I wanted, time of year I wanted, type of dress I wanted, etc. I will be 26 next year, so that's a lot of years between to change my mind about things.
So you can be excited about your wedding someday, there's nothing wrong with it... just be sure to remember it's a happy time of your life, so you want it all to be perfect, and you want to be with the love of your life- and it may take time to find that right one.
2007-08-01 06:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by m930 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any little girl that hasn't dreamed of a wedding. Oh my, I knew the dress and the flowers and the song and everything. I have seen some girls that use their allowance to buy bridal books and make a scrapbook of "The dress" and "The china" etc. It's ok to dream. But, don't be in a hurry. Don't marry the wedding. You know what I mean? Don't get married to have a wedding. Have a wedding to get married. Wait for Mr. right and enjoy to planning together.
2007-08-01 15:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. Just don't het so worked up over it. It will happen at the right moment. Besides I think the anticipation of the day was the best part. The wedding day was awesome too but it was over so fast. Think about what you would want to do for a sweet sixteen. You can even wear a big poofy white dress if you want. (Spanish do this for quincenera - girls turning 15)
2007-08-01 10:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by JM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not so bad that your stomach hurts. But girls dreaming of their weddings at a young age is perfectly normal. Most girls do it. A lot of girls have their weddings all planned out before they ever even meet their husband.
I would like to clarify one thing. If someone is married, they have a spouse, not a significant other. A significant other implies lack of long term commitment, I think it is insulting to people who have made their sacred vows and covenants.
2007-08-01 05:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww... hun, that's so cute, I think about the day of my wedding often, I'm 18 y/o and sometimes I feel like you, wondering if it's OK. ^_^
There is nothing wrong with dreaming with your wedding, that is the day in which a girl feels like a princess, see:
*A charming prince that loves you with all his <3 and you love him too.
*A beautiful facy fairy tale dress
*Around people you love
*All attention is to you
*Feel like never ever before
*The biggest step of your life
*Nice make up
*A beautiful church
*The begining of a new life next to your prince
*And many more...
I still don't get why people divorce, that would be my biggest nightmare... a divorce sucks. Well, keep dreaming about your wedding but NEVER rush things, you are still young, you will meet a lot of guys and make sure to choose the righ prince, remember that you're a princess ^_^
Althought there are many "material" factors that makes a wedding beautiful, the most important thing in the world is that you will be forever and for eternities sealed with the one and only love of your life and that it is the begining of a family :)
2007-08-01 06:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Love Yahoo!!! wannabe a princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay to "dream" about your wedding at 13 but just as long as you don't act on it until you're old enough and ready to settle down. You want to make sure you've met the right person for you before making that decision and that could take as long as it took for me to get married and that was at the age of 30. It will happen. Just be patient, strong and enjoy your youth!
2007-08-01 05:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girls dream about their wedding day all their lives! It will come one day for you, just take your time and don't focus on getting married. You're 13 now, you should start planning your sweet 16! Start saving and start getting ideas for it.
2007-08-01 05:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Planning ahead, setting goals, thinking about the future...that is not bad. It is good to prepare for life and set goals to accomplish. That is very ambitious. Just do not obsess and get carried away with it, ie it consumes your every thought.
If that happens, set your goals more short term and work on things that can be accomplished right away..
2007-08-01 06:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It is every (regular) women's dream. I've been dreaming and planning my wedding day since I was 6 :)
2007-08-01 05:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by butter_cupxu 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋