I've been hanging out with my best friend at her boyfriends house, and her boyfriend is trying to hook me up with his friend. I am into his friend, and I think he has a GREAT personality, not to mention he is gorgeous.
Jokingly, we were saying that we were each others dates for the night, I only wish it was true!
We've hung out 3 times now--, and I really just want to let him know that I'm into him--but I don't want to be too direct...here's where the sticky part comes in...
He's in the process of getting divorced, and I know he has a lot on his mind with that. My friends boyfriend told me he is just looking for someone to hang out with and make something out of it a little bit down the road...which is okay with me. I just want to let him know that I'm into him--and I think he is into me. When I left the last time we hung out, he said "I hope we get to hang out again soon..."
What should I do? Should I lay low or should I kinda put myself out there a little bit? HELP
2007-08-01 04:59:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you are doing now is fine. You're hanging out and having a good time. And trust me... he's into you. ;)
Just keep on keeping on and things will progress quite nicely.
Good Luck!!
2007-08-01 05:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put yourself out there a little bit because if he has someone like you by his side he'll feel more confident about getting the divorce because you will support him when he's going through this tough time. I think it would be great even though he's getting a divorce because he knows that he has a shoulder to cry on. But don't make it like obvious just let him know your interested. By like calling him to go for some coffee or something. It will really lift his spirits.
2007-08-01 12:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by shelbyroxhardcore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like to me you already have yourself an answer. he looks way into you. when he said you guys were each others date he wasn't only joking he was flirting, but if he's friend said he's not really into hooking up and he needs time for his divorce i think maybe you should just be friends for awhile or go for it if he seems kinda into you ask him out on a REAL date and see what goes down. anything can happen. just listen to your heart.
2007-08-01 12:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY lay low. Think low blade of grass. There is NO NEED for you to do anything else to let him know you are interested or to provide him with encouragement. He already seems to know. If you do anything else, it could put him off. Just be your wonderful self, play it cool, sit back and enjoy. Good luck!
2007-08-01 12:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a little bit. just a little. if he's having emotional problems about his divorced, you should always be there for him. he'll know that you care about him. and to let him know that you're into him, look at him in the eyes and wait until he looks at you back. but turn away when he sees you. you might wanna hold it for a couple of seconds if he's still looking at you. do this a couple of time and he might get the message.
2007-08-01 12:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by ToanN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be kind and play it by ear. Remember he once loved a woman enough to give his life to her. What happened? This is a red flag. Maybe he's not the great catch he seems to be. It happens. Give it time before jumping in with both feet. You may find you are dealing with shallow water.
2007-08-01 12:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, just remain friends since both of u will understand each other well... Be there for him in this sensitive time in his life (the divorce) so that he can count on you ... And it definitely seems like he's considering you to be his future mate...good luck!!
2007-08-01 12:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any guy when he hangs out with a girl a lot he will start to like her and he will almost always like the girl b4 the girl likes him so u should try to put urself out there and see what he does as a response and go from there
2007-08-01 12:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way, have you ever heard the term rebound girl? i would lay low for now and keep it friendly, being aggressive will scare him off since he is going through a divorce.
2007-08-01 12:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by colormehappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay low for a whle
2007-08-01 12:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by no shame in my game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋