2007-08-01 03:37:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on your beliefs
2007-08-01 03:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason you're asking this question is because somewhere inside you feel that the above is wrong. Conviction is powerful, so use it when you're blessed with it. Sex outside of marriage is a sin, and even if you don't believe in sin or God or morality, sex is something that pleases you firstly and the other person secondly. Think about different outcomes such as pregnancy, STDs, and even simple heartbreak. Is it worth it to get yourself involved in something that may be temporary. What is love if you won't commit? If you would commit, do that first because it's better to wait. It would be sad to give your heart away, and your body away when you don't know for sure that it is to the right person. If you really love the other person, let them know that you want them to be the only one, and you don't want to risk their heart in the future. Good luck in making a decision, it's up to you now! :)
2007-08-01 10:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by stellabella525 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married already, or is she married to someone else? Then absolutely not.
Are they both unattached? Does SHE want to have sex with him? Have they both fully disclosed any diseases they might have? Are they on the same page as to what the encounter represents? (i.e., they are both looking for a one night stand, or both looking for a committed relationship.) Are you both prepared for the risk of unplanned pregnancy? Do your religious beliefs permit premarital sex? If your answer to all of these is yes, then I don't see why not.
2007-08-01 10:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is, as long as both of you are well informed and fully understand the consequences, then do what you both agree upon.
P.S. For those who are preaching sin and talking about stds and unwanted pregnancies, you do realize this also happens after marriage right? There are people who choose to abstain and then marriage comes along and then an std hits or a pregnancy they weren't ready for... you know that right?
...Just sayin
2007-08-01 11:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by drandsv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A plain simple absolutely NO!!!!1. Its wrong 2. Its a sin against God 3.It's so much more enjoyable when you are married and you can't possibly feel guilty!! Come on.Take my word for it.
2007-08-01 10:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by A Ceratin Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your beliefs. Christian faith for example does not agree with having sex before you are married.
But it today's society it is a common practice.
You do what you feel is right for you based on your beliefs.
Along with you beliefs commons unwanted pregnancy and possible sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-08-01 10:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by lisadaisy165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you LOVE her, go for it! Just make sure you do it with the right person - one who you can stay committed to for a long time.
Be careful, though. If something goes wrong, you'll regret ever doing it.
BUT, If you only "like" her, no point.
2007-08-01 10:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by *~EmInEm-LuVeR~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Two reasons from many I will give you.
First, God calls it fornication, and it is sin.
Second, a man should carry himself more highly than that- put aside the urge, and respect her (and yourself) enough to marry first.
2007-08-01 10:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you aint already married then yea why should it matter?
And hey if she loves you back maybe you will get married
2007-08-01 10:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by xmalteyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is committed to that person, and willing to accept the responsibility of being a father should thinks go awry. If so, then why not?
2007-08-01 10:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is you're choice. Whatever makes you happiest! Many people do that, in my opinion, it doesn't really matter when you loose you're virginity. I know that's not what you're talking about, so what I am trying to say is, go ahead!
2007-08-01 10:41:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋