he's in asia right now, but he read my messeges that i got from my bf bout sex...
he said that when he comes back he is gonna kill me...
and he means it, ive seen him hurt my mom before, shes almost been killed several times...
hes even been arrested because of this but he came back even worse...
my mom wont divorce him and hes coming back in 7 days... what am i gonna do?
2007-08-01 03:34:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he isnt gonna listen to any excuses.... im really afraid :(
and if i call the gardai he will seriously go phsyco on me.
2007-08-01 03:38:14 · update #1
he's been texting me saying that im a bigger ***** than my mam
2007-08-01 03:43:46 · update #2
Sweetie this is a dangerous situation you are in what you should do is go get a restraining order against him and also make sure you watch your surroundings stay with a group of people at all times he is least likely to hurt you if you got witnesses also make sure you lock up your house securely so that when he gets home and he tries to get in he cant but you must get a restraining order sweetie I know you love your daddy but you got to protect yourself if you have to find a friend or family members house you can stay at and tell them not to tell your father please listen to me even though I dont know you I dont want you to get hurt I care about you sweetie take care
Sade
2007-08-01 04:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Poet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since obviously your father is not one to reason and talk things out and you fear for your safety, all you can do is notify the authorities before anything happens. Let them know how you fear for your physical safety and that there have been prior incidents of extreme violence in your home. If he's been arrested there is certainly a record and they will believe you. Do not let the fact that he is your father influence your decision to protect yourself. After this is all over I strongly suggest that you be much more careful with anything that you feel your father can find out. Not that you have to be sneaky but just careful. If thee are other adult family members, besides your mother that you can trust, tell them what is happening so at least you can have the support of any of them should something happen, which probably will. Good luck and be smarter next time.
2007-08-01 03:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to the cops and file a report. Make sure you save the txt message just in case you need it in the future. Good luck =)
2007-08-01 07:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by babiigrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what was the pervert doing reading your private messages?
ok hopefully you have 7 days to form a plan.you MUST get away now and take your mum and any other females in your family.Do go to the police,Do seek help/shelter.tell your boyfriends parents(hopefully they like you?)they will help their sons girlfriend.
but the best advice is to RUN and GET HELP FAST!
2007-08-01 03:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get protection before he comes back. This sounds serious and dangerous.
2007-08-01 03:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. I would save your text messages to verify how "crazy" he is. You need to be very careful. My prayers are with you.
2007-08-01 06:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by wdh25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would seek help from your bf's parents and inform the police about this and get help asap! May god bless you ♥
2007-08-01 06:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Everything's Magic♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you better run for your life or take up with the authorities and see if they can help by gettting a restraining order on him. and if you have proof with the messages show it to them. and they will do something
2007-08-01 03:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.TruBlue 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, call the police when he gets there? Run away?
2007-08-01 04:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Mastershake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a police report
2007-08-01 03:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋