The guy I used to like knew I liked him. I don't like him anymore, and he has a girlfriend now, but I really want to tell him that I no longer like him, but he was nice to me and stuff and I appreciate that. Would that be too weird to do because of his girlfriend?
2007-08-01 03:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it so important that he know you don't like him anymore? He has a girlfriend, so I'm sure it's not that big of a deal to him.
2007-08-01 03:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by luckygurl284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y do u haVe to tell him ur not into him anymore? He's still hooked up to his girl, and if there aren't any intentions that he's thinking of dumping her for u, or using u as a back up or something, then I"d just let it go. Be happy he's a nice guy who isn't looking for anything else in return except for u to be nice back. There aren't many nice guys out there who just wanna be nice for the sake of being nice...so plz don't read into it, and possibly turn him off to being a nice guy to girls.
2007-08-01 10:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why if he has a gf do you feel you need to update him? Sounds like he's moved on, and I'm guessing your actions will show you've changed. I don't see the point in telling him if he's not really acting in any way to show you a level of attention of someone you like back. I'd say you're both on the same page, and just move on.
2007-08-01 10:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things are better left unsaid! Do you just want to hurt this guys feelings? Since he has a girlfriend you doing that seems kind of psycho!
2007-08-01 10:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by europa312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him that. Just be friends with him. You don't have to announce your feelings every time they change. He's probably not too concerned since he has a girlfriend.
2007-08-01 10:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend now. He doesn't care if you still like him or not. So don't tell him. He has gotten over it so you should too.
2007-08-01 10:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by ChelleBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's nice 2 u, informing him that u appreciate his friendship is normal. Make sure he understands it only friendship now and nothing else.
Make sure u 2 understand it's only friendship tho 2.
2007-08-01 10:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still like him. Sounds like you two are friends already so what would be the point in telling him that I don't like you but you're nice. I think you want to tell him that you dont like him to see his reaction when you say it to him.
2007-08-01 10:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by TD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bother. He may take it the wrong way(like that you are just saying it because you are bitter he's dating someone) and it will just be awkward for you. Just keep moving on with your life, he'll get the hint eventually :)
2007-08-01 10:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cryssy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think telling him in a nice way would be a good idea.
2007-08-01 10:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋