I'm 37, divorced, I have three boys 18, 14 and 2, I've had my professional career for 10 years now, I'm constantly told I'm stunning but............. My problem is that I can seem to find a good man out there, I've been hurt before so I have to admit my standars are higher now but not something borderline either. So, I do have lots of friends, I do attend different activities, I go out dancing sometimes, but it's like there's nothing good out there, they either look at me with big eyes when I say "I have 3 kids", or they're married men looking for some fun, or they're unemployed looking for a sugar mama, or they're Gigolos that have a girfriend in every city! So, I'm really getting frustrated here!!! I mean is it that bad out there or is it me??!
2007-08-01 03:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your just not really looking good enough. So your a busy women and you go here and there, and you 'do your thang'. But what about that cute younger man at work, that you never talk to because he's 'to young to understand'. Setting your standars is one thing, but if your not even giving these guys a chance, then thats your own fault. So next time you decided that some guy just isnt even worth talking to... think again because he might just end up being perfect for you
2007-08-01 03:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kasandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say the big problem is in the demographics: 37, divorced, and three children. You've demonstrated a propensity for failed commitments, and to find a man willing to deal with that PLUS some other guy's children, you're going to either need a lot of luck or significantly lower standards.
2007-08-01 03:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter found one. (She was 33 with two kids and a war widow). She found him on a religious dating website. They are very happily with three kids. She was very selective. Dated a lot of guys, but made the decision on which one would be the best "family" guy. Don't give up. There are some good guys out there. And they are single because they have high standards also.
2007-08-01 03:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I was in the same situation. But then I met a guy and all has changed. I was on the verge of giving up, as a last resort, I joined an Internet dating group. After working through all the guys just wanting the one thing, I managed to find a couple of decent guys, we chatted for a while and then I met this one and it was the best thing I could have done. My kids are younger so it was harder to go out and met people. I recommend it as it broadens your horizons.
2007-08-01 10:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a family guy looking for a nice woman.
2007-08-01 03:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good guys out there. You're just looking in the wrong places.
2007-08-01 03:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋