i said no so he never spoke about it again so i told him that im ready for it
now we do it everyday but i am not comfortable doing it so often. and when i told him this he threatens me that he will leave me and spread the tale about our relationship pls help im stuck.
2007-08-01 02:30:43 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea.. agree with top two answers.. he isn't a keeper...
remember your the one with the control as you control the honey in the beehive and that's what he responds too.. you want too see him melt down... cut him out.
He threatens to spread tales? Immature little punk... and your not stuck, your letting yourself get USED!
Naughty Princess... he is not worthy of you, and yea rumors will surface and your reputation may suffer a bit but pay no mind as they are but ripples in the lake of life, so it is time for you too grow a spine, stand up straight and kick the dude in the balls.
p.s., I love your name.... grrrrrr baby.... grrrrrr....
2007-08-01 02:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U know what? **** happens, and guys are sweet and wonderful when they want something from u. The real test of their love and loyalty comes when u deny what they want, and they love and respect u anyway. This doesn't seem the case. Let him spread the tale, in this day and age, he's just as at fault as u. U can spread the tale too. Girls take a second look at guys with pasts now...it's not as it was before. Besides, u can find a guy who'll love u anyway. When love is involved, one won't matter that they aren't their lover's first. All this guy wanted was a conquest, and now it seems he wants control...don't give it to him, because if this goes on, he'll make u feel like total crap somehow, then he'll get bored and leave u...then where will u be? Get out, the sooner, or the better...or, call his bluff, test him to see if he really cares for u.
2007-08-01 15:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U started it by sleeping with him. Now he's blackmailing u 2 sleep with him.
I don't know ur age, but if ur so uncomfortable about sleeping with him maybe it's time 2 bite the bullet and in form him "if he spreads the word, ur'll spread a lil something about him"
I'm sure u can think of a few things that will keep the other girls away. U got urself in a place that know u wish u wasn't and I normally would advise u 2 spread things, but u need 2 protect urself some way and this is the only way I could think of right off, except taking him 2 court 4 blackmail.
2007-08-01 03:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u have a problem he shouldn't be threatening u at all! that is very wrong, if he tells the tale about u guys u can know that he is a horrible person fro doing that, anyway i don't think he would bc he would be made fun of for being in a relationship with someone if he spreads the tale u do it to and say bad thigns about him and tell everyone the things he is saying are not true!
2007-08-01 02:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by TakeMeAway_x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh god! plz leave him as soon as possible he is playing with ur emotions an ur feeling. get out of him. Don't worry! if he spreads anything u too must be having something bad about him tell him about that and just leave him. he is not at all gud man. SORRY! but from my point of view u have done a wrong thing u must be in a bad pain. u are so stupid i am feeling bad 4 u. but its ur mistake why u went to a such extent with him.
2007-08-01 04:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean solicited fun is gud fun, but when it comes this close to backmail, you need to threaten him that you would go to the cops & tell them that he tried to molest u! Also tell him that you have a lawyer ready for it & the press is always waiting for such masalas! your bf (if you still please to call him that) is never again going to threaten you! Not too keen on this idea? Here's plan B. Tell him no u wont succumb to pressure & if he tries fowlmouthing u, you will spread the word that you stopped having sex with him because his privates are absolutely non satisfying & he's very close to becomming impotent! if you need more plans, type the same question after 2 days & i'll give u 2 more plans. Meanwhile tc.
2007-08-01 03:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him quick. Never allow some jerk to threaten you for anything. If he says he will spread lies about you he just a waste of skin. Next time he says he'll spread a tale about your relationship, just let him know that you can spread a tale about his size and performance...
Take care.
2007-08-01 02:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by remowlms 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him immedietly ,
i understand that ur concerned that he will spread bad things about you , but how do you know he'll not do this after he is fed up with you ?
tell ur close friend & if possible ur mother/sister abt this so that in case some bad happens they will be there for you.
He is just threatening you so that he can use you for some more time .Its time to be strong & face the reality.
move ahead & be strong...
gud luck & god bless
2007-08-01 02:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing what you doing with your bf. A bf is not a husband. He has no right to expect sex everyday, and you have no right giving it to him without marriage. Wise up, you will not be the only one to have tale spread about them and the good part is, it is not the end of the world.
2007-08-01 02:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by I Wanna Know 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u shouldnt have gone back to him. but now that you did u need to leave. u cant just have sex cuz he wants to. thats SO wrong on SO many levels!! he's not worth it if he's making u do something you don't want to do. let him spread rumors all he wants, he's an immature little boy and you can get so much better than him. dont EVER do ANYTHING that you dont wanna do. if u really need help there are hotlines and stuff out there that u can call
2007-08-01 02:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋