We have been dating for five month and have gotten close at a slow pace a frist. Things have really picked up fast in the last two months. I am a free sprit and have no problem saying " bye I love you have a great day". she does not seem to want to say these words or has been hurt I am not shure?
2007-08-01 01:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by GUMBY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell it in your own time...
I'm not philosophizing you.
but it depends on your instincts, if you think youre on a safe zone already cause you see that things are all right then go say it!!!!
Or in another way, if you feel as though you should really tell it already then say it!!!
Maybe she's just feeling that way when you say goodbye with an attached phrase of " I love you" because she's confused... she might think you're sending mixed signals to her, and as a woman she is, she's also standing on a safe ground not exposing her feelings yet.
so bottom line---get over it and say it if you feel that it is the right time... whatever the outcome---may it be she said she loves you too or not---don't sulk.... nonetheless, make sure she means it
2007-08-01 02:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by IceMist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only tell a woman you love her when you are absolutely sure and sincere about it.
If she doesn't respond in kind and this continues for quite sometime, then that's a hint and a half for you that the two of you are not on the same page. You might want to move on.
2007-08-08 17:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when she's looking at her worst, not when you're having sex (if you are) that's when guys say it and don't mean it! (or they say it just to get sex!) BUT remember she may not feel so strongly about you (sorry) and as you say, she may have been hurt and is being more cautious. Please don't say it if you don't mean it deeply, from the heart. It is a very serious thing to a woman, not something to be said lightly.
2007-08-02 08:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by survivor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her casually at first to get her used to hearing it. Then tell her again in a more serious way so she knows you mean it. Even girl's that are cautious appreciate when a guy is serious about her. Trust me on this one!
2007-08-01 09:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dating Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, just say it, put her down and make her to understand you love her, and if she does too. after that, u need to make a touch, make her understand how u feel for her, touch her any where on her body. u should make her understand u care. moreso, say it louder when u guys are in action lol
2007-08-01 08:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Morh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right time is when you feel it in your heart. My boyfriend and I fell in love after 7 dates. We knew it was right and if you feel it, say it!
2007-08-01 08:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, every girl wants to hear that, tell her when u are having sex, lol
2007-08-01 08:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and ask if she does back. Its that easy.
2007-08-01 08:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋