How can I know whether he has STD without asking him?

Question

Is it very odd and a turn off to ask him directly?

Thank you for ALL!
OK, I will ask him before sleep with him. I trust him. I don't know how many women he had and don't want to know. I just concerned about getting STD. BTW, I'm still a virgin.

Answer 1

Ask him if he has been tested. Tell him that you are very leary about stds since HIV is so dangerous. Also use protection! He could lie to you anyway.

Answer 2

Most STDs don't have symptoms - so you can't tell. Even if a guy says he doesn't have an STD (and of course he'd say he didn't) - you have to assume he does and use protection.

I know I sound like a granny, but having sex involves a lot of responsibility. Like finding out what the other person likes and making them feel good. And discussing important things like contraception and STDs. Not a turn on maybe, but necessary.

Eventually you might both want to be tested - but unless you're sure he is faithful then keep protecting yourself. And if you're not comfortable broaching the subject then I'd say wait awhile before going all the way.

Answer 3

if u are about to enter into a sexual relationship u have every right to ask. if not the question will look odd. if u have already had sex and are suspecting u have caught an STD from him just go get tested then if positive u will tell him coz he must also be treated.

Remember that most STDS only show symptoms when they have lasted long in the body, so its not always that u can see- u have to ask.

Answer 4

Heres a plan

I caught an std 4 years ago and what i had to do was go to the clinic have the Doc insert a needle in my you know what and then waight for the results.

They tell you with in half an hour.

If you come up positive the Doc will pruscribe you with some pills to take on a daily basis for two weeks.

now as the gies and girls pills are the same all you have to do is spike his drink every day for two weeks and you can be sure he woant have an std.
if he hasnt to start with the pills woant affect him in anyway, anyway.

now if uve got an std ur self, you can use your pills on him and tell the Doc uve lost yours and he will give you more.

if you havent the best way to get your hands on some pills is to go stand out side the clinic and wait for a chav to come out, offer them a fiver for the pills (happy days)

its a plan.

Answer 5

Without stealing his medical files or becoming his doctor there is no sure way to find out except to ask. This may be very embarrassing for you but you are doing it to protect your health. What if he had aids? You don't want to skip this question just because it's awkward, it's just too important!

Answer 6

It may be odd and a turn off but you have to ask him direct and get it over with. Its not worth catching something just because your scared to ask. You health is your number 1 priority.

Answer 7

Firstly You should get yourself tested for STD and if it comes out that you have it and your guy is the only sexual partner you have then you need to tell him that you have STD and that you would like him to be tested for it because if you have it then he needs to go for a test himself x

Answer 8

he wont know if he has an STD or if he did i would hope that he has had it treated. you could ask him to get himself checked out but then it would only be fair for you to return the favour and go and get yourself tested out. make sure that you use protection

Answer 9

ask him he might not like it but its a good idea to both have tests if hes a decent guy hell respect you for being sensible besides some stds like chlamydia dont have symtoms & can make you infertile

Answer 10

Unless he has a current break out episode, which he would have to be naked anyways to see, the answer is NO.

Would he tell you the truth anyways?

Only blood test can give true answers!

Sorry!