Is my future ruined? Am I to always look forward to housekeeping or fast food? I have a college degree but a felony too, now so will I always be miserable and hate myself?
2007-07-31 18:12:51 · 13 answers · asked by shallytally 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Yeah, it's pretty messed up...that's the government keeps people in their place. I have a felony and a degree, it's been 6 years...and I'm still working as a bartender. If you make one mistake it can ruin your whole life...it's the land of the free. I hope you have better luck than I've had.
2007-07-31 18:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Use an employment agency. They are very good at handling this situation and know employers who will give you a chance.
Also, if you are discharged and not on parole or probation, ask your lawyer about filing a motion to expunge your conviction and seal your record. Most states make this possible except for sex crimes.
Don't lose hope. Keep making applications and don't give up because you think everyone will say no. Eventually someone will hire you. Several employers have felons for relatives or had crimes in their background and understand.
You just have to find one.
Good luck.
2007-07-31 18:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's been my experience that U.S. culture has become extremely conservative over the past eight years. Yes, convicted felons are shunned from all but the most menial jobs. Seems everyone wants to do a background check these days and ANY conviction is grounds to be ignored.
It's weird: on the one hand society says "go forth and sin no more" than on the other hand they make it almost impossible for you to work and support yourself.
2007-07-31 18:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is hope. You can get a good job. It must start with the thoughts you hold now. Committing a crime creates baggage in your mind. Your new mindset for success will not be immediate, so you must be patient.
Create a vision of the way you would like things to be. When your mind turns to thoughts of despair, do whatever is necessary to turn back to your new vision.
First and foremost, take care of "..being miserable and hating myself." That will undermine your new vision quicker than anything else.
Respond in your comments what your new vision is. Use only positive and uplifting words.. (no apologies or reference to infirmity).
Your power to be what you want has always been in your NOW moment. Thats why I expect to see your vision NOW.
Memorize it and refer to it often while your new life unfolds.
2007-07-31 18:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by flip33 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After I think seven years you can get your record sealed. In the meantime alot of opportunities are closed to you. But you don't have to settle for fast food and housekeeping. There are plenty of other jobs that aren't so bad that you can get. I noticed you got some answers from some people who think that because they never had any problems that they are ok to judge others. Lets say this I would rather hire you with your criminal record than some smug self-righteous jerk any day of the week.
2007-07-31 19:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it really depends on the nature of your crime.
I'd recommend trying non-corporate institutions or non-profits that are run by the person who hires you. You will find more compassion there.
2007-07-31 18:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Biggg 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You made that decision when you committed the crime.
That said, I believe everyone deserves a second chance, and many companies will look at your merits.
It's the land of the free for employers too.
2007-07-31 18:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Be persistent and patient. Take it one day at a time and don't ever give up. Persistence will take you ahead.
2007-07-31 19:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a felony on my record and im still making good money u just have to knoe ppl in the game ask around ask freinds and c if they can help u i have a 2degree felony on my record my freind got me in the telemarcatin game makein 12 plus comission alwready
2007-07-31 20:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone force you to commit this felony? Even though you are a convicted felon, would you want one living next door to you? What if they were a child molester? What if they were an arsonist? Most of society doesn't like to feel threatened by a potential problem like a neighbor who has a questionable past. I don't know what type of felony you committed but you brought it on yourself. You will find it extremely difficult to cultivate trust and confidence from neighbors and co-workers. I hate to say this but you made your life about one hundred times worse.
2007-07-31 18:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by rollmanjmg 4 · 1⤊ 7⤋