My family hates me so much & they just don't realize how hurtful it would be if I were to have lost my life, like by a heart-attack or another stroke or something. & when my other sister died, they laughed & talked about her like garbage since she couldn't come back to life & defend herself.
Many people say that life is short & you never know when it's your turn.
2007-07-31 17:27:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh my gosh, thats is soo terrible of your family to talk ill of your sister. you should tell them to stop that. Anyways, at first they might be a little sad but still mad at u, but when time past..they are gonna realize that they lost u forever, and hating you when your died isn't gonna help nobody.. after awhile they WILL regret hating you, and how they should have spent more time luvin u.
but seriously tell them off about your sister..thats soo mean and rude
basically your family might not care as much at first but they always will care.
2007-07-31 17:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find friends, or distant family, that will listen to you. Maybe you could stay with an Aunt & Uncle for a while. Sometimes a different point of view helps. Talk to a therapist. Call a crisis line. they can get you in touch with someone who can help point you in the right directions.
Also, people react to grief in different ways. Joking, laughing, "roasting" them may help them to cope with your sister's death. It does not mean they love them any less or miss them more than you do. It is just their way of expressing depression.
2014-11-05 08:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life is short...and you have to live your life..this is your life..and when you wake up in the morning and look in the mirror, its you . Where ever you go, you go with you..please live life for you find someone who makes you smile...don't let family or anyone else take your joy and happiness from you. A lot of times people are not happy in there own life so they want to try an make others miserable too. Be strong find your inner strength and live.
2007-07-31 17:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...no offense but from what i read, your family is really messed up and hateful. if they dont even appreciate you as their daughter or whatever realtionship you have with them, then its their loss. you're better off without these hateful people. i mean...you always hear you can count on family and that family will always be there for you and comfort you but here is the exception. You are RIGHT. life is short and if you do spend your life worrying about what your hateful family will think of you, dont. it's not worth it. be happy with yourself.
2007-07-31 17:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by chena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your family found amusement in your sister dying, what makes you think you would be any different. Leave these people behind and get involved with some positive people. Who needs the negativity?
2007-07-31 17:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you need to lead your life in an area far removed from your "family". If your family members react as you describe, then I'd stay away from them and adopt a new family.
Leave them in your wake and proceed to a better life.
2007-07-31 17:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i don't think they would care they would probably do you just like they did your sister but you shouldn't care if they would care since you know how they are and second you would be ead so it really won't matter. It sounds like you need a hug or something to get this and your family off your mind.
2007-07-31 17:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur parents r as u say they are, then ur attitude should be "f*** off!!" u get a life of ur own... get into college n get some education n get a job n then u can leave them! but parents r most hurt when their children die. ur parents mustv bin devastated when ur sister. thats for sure. if not, well, then U GO GURL!!
2007-07-31 17:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Anger is just in the mind but won't sink in the heart. Blood is blood they will cry a lot I am sure of that. Would you mind to try? Just kidding...
2007-07-31 17:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do they hate you? I'll bet its for a good reason. This question looks like a drama queens script.
2007-07-31 17:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by eric l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋