i am TOO indecisive!?

Question

ok, so, first i wanted my wedding in december, but then talked myself out of it for various reasons. so we switched the date to october....but now i got the bright idea in my head to do it in april! urrgghh...
so...basicly...does anyone have any ideas that can sway me one way or the other, so i can pick a day in april, or a day in october, and STICK WITH IT???
our colors are red and black, and we're having a sort of rock and roll theme...
i live in Wisconsin, so weather is a major factor....
does anyone have any reasons why i should choose April?
reasons i should choose October?
i keep changing my mind, and i just am trying to picture what will work best! help me out!?

im indecisive not because i dont want to get married. i really really DO want to get married. but we keep switching the date for one reason or another....
i have a brother who just got married friday, and another getting married next year, so we're trying to keep the weddings spaced out far enough so my parents dont go completely broke (they WANT to help pay)...we also have guests coming from like, seven differant states, so having to travel too much in too short a period of time gets hectic.
dont get me wrong. i DO want to get married. i have like, every detail figured out otherwise, but i cant pick a date that just FEELS right. i think october would be cool, but so would april because our anniversary would be in there...but then its too close to easter....
im just trying to keep this simple for EVERYONE involved. wedding related stress isnt cool

thanks for the great answers guys, i really mean it! you all have some good points, and my fiance and i will weigh them all in our decision. part of our indecisiveness IS due to the fact we dont WANT to wait too long, but we know we should to make sure we get the wedding WE want...

Answer 1

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