Ok so im goin to be a Senior in High School.. and until sophmore year i had always been too nervous to ask a girl out.. lol and so sophmore year i decided to ask this girl out and she said maybe and then ended up sayin no and then junior year i became friends with this girl and i asked her out and she said no also... i mean what am i doing wrong? i dont think im ugly.. lol i'm always being told that im pretty good lookin.... this isnt much to really be able to judge but im hispanic, 5'8", 150 pounds, whitish skin(like an american.. lol) short black spiky hair, and i have greyish eyes... so wut do you girls think? and so my questions realy are why do these girls say no and do you think im not really good lookin(its not much just writing wut i look like but... yeah.. lol)
2007-07-31 15:54:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm hey!
lol i can't really tell how you look like but it sounds like you're asking girls who you have a "friend" vibe with! it's oober weird to go out with someone i feel like a brother to. have your friends who are girls and be more flirty with those you want to date. GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-31 15:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by vballer4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a cutie to me. And as far as girls not going out with you maybe they are waiting for the guy they've had their eyes on to ask them out... Or (not saying this your case) aiming a little too high? Try looking for someone a little on the quiet side (possibly shy) but still cute. And most of all just be you and be confident that you are you. Best of Look and Good Hunting
2007-07-31 22:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kathlyne N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be asking the wrong girls out. Try to find a girl who has the same interests as you and ask her before you get into the "friends zone". I'm sure it's not your looks, just your approach. Don't act like it's a big deal, just suggest dinner or a movie or even a walk. Don't give up, you'll find someone.
2007-07-31 22:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly8373992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. i think you haven't made the girls fall for you yet. you have to make them want you. you can't just get a crush, not know if she feels the same, the act on it. maybe you sould ask another question on how to really get a girl. sweettalking is my weekness. and it can't sound practice or like a line. LOL my man about 2 weeks into dating looked at me in the eyes.. got this big sweet grin on his face then said "baby, you are beautiful, and i am so lucky" and it stold my heart. lol but ask the guys
2007-07-31 23:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have just chosen the wrong girl. She may like someone else or she isn't allowed to date or she is the kind of girl that just can't make a decision. Find another girl you like and ask her. You deserve to have a girlfriend that likes you. The next girl you ask.....ask her to go a specific place with you, like the movies on Saturday afternoon. If you are asking them to be your girlfriend without even dating, that could be your problem.
2007-07-31 22:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isnt your appeareance.. maybe it's your personality!.. see..! we dont like insecure guys..at least I dont.. if you are that *shy* as you described youself.. you will have to try to hide it 4 a while.. just for the invitation.. then you can get nervous again... a man has to b self confident and interesting (talking) not only the look counts..
Good Luck!...
2007-07-31 23:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bellatrix_bk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, getting rejected is all a part of dating. It def sucks but you are gonna get rejected from time to time, and sometimes you will get a yes! Just don't think that there is something wrong with you.. ask any guy, they have ALL been rejected it just goes with the territory. The best thing you can do if you get rejected is just shrug your shoulders and brush it off..
2007-07-31 22:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by meeeeeeeee2681 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey well it sounds like your striking girls as the "BIG BRO" type. Dont you hate that! The only advice I have is just be you and never change for anyone you like just to try and impress. Someone will see your wonderfull personallity and fall right for you and hey she might be pretty damn georgeous!!!!!!
2007-07-31 23:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage girls usually want older guys - like guys out of high school. Hang in there. You'll find the right one.
2007-07-31 22:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb they just werent that into u...try and make friends with the girls first and if u feel that there is a connection or if u really like her...then u ask..and mayb ull have better luck
2007-07-31 22:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by .:Hearts:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋