What is up w/this guy. Ive started dating a younger guy he is 20 & im 29 and ive been w/him for over a month and he started working like 7 days a week and I asked him why doesn't he text me back right away when I text him. And he doesn't answer the phone when I call him. He said he is really busy. So I asked him if I should leave him alone he says no. And tells me that is why he doesn't have girlfriends because he puts work before pleasure? I just sent him a text saying that I want him to be my boyfriend no matter how busy he is and to call me when he has time to see me. Is that wrong should i just leave him alone?
2007-07-31 14:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by No way! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he may be a bit of a workaholic and as such you may end up spending a lot of time alone and/or lonely. Also I would imagine that there is a pretty big difference in maturity with your age difference. However it is not up to us a bunch of total strangers to make the call for you. So I wish you the best of luck in this relationship and figuring out what will make you happy within a relationship.
2007-07-31 15:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my experience if you really love someone you cant wait to spend your free time with them so if he really is working that just might be it. question is how does he act when he has a free day? does he avoid you or rather hang out with his buddies? He is very young for a 29 yr old, not so much age difference but maturity wise, he might not be ready for anything meaning full. takes some guys a while to want that? But good luck and hope it works out the way you want :)
2007-07-31 22:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rancidbearsgrease 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be a very mature 20 year old. It's nice to hear about a young person working. If he isn't giving you the attention you require maybe you should move on. He may be too mature for you.
2007-07-31 22:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by TURBOSC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is rather interesting. Must men at the age like sex and want to drink beer. But this guy works. He seems like has good morals, and has good intentions. Maybe you should leave him alone.
Ask him what his work hours are. If he gets home ridiculously late, you should be a little suspicious. If he gets home as usual, I think you shouldn't get rid of him because of that reason.
2007-07-31 22:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. If you're not happy with how he behaves, you'll need to find a new guy. If you're really willing to accept his schedule and only see him when he feels he has time, that's up to you. Sounds to me that it won't work out in the long run that way, however.
2007-07-31 22:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Domitius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when one is at work, one should not be texting/calling one's friends/girlfriends/etc - you are on your employer's time.
I don't want ot be insulting, but you do sound rather demanding; if you want someone on your beck and call try the unemployment line.
2007-07-31 22:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think u should keep talkin to him otherwise u might start to fall out of touch with him
2007-07-31 22:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
--Why would you settle for that??? Your self-esteem needs tuning----Your acting desperate--are you???
2007-07-31 22:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lee M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋