I know what you're going to say. You're just a little kid looking for attention. But I hand over my life to you.
I really don't know what to do anymore.
Nothing seems to make me truly happy.
What can I do?
Everything I used to love is stupid now, I can't just give up and commit suicide.
No one seems to understand me, I can't seem to love or express emotions.
And I really don't like dumping it all on people.
I feel socially incapable of acting normal around people. And always feel fat/ugly. I have major self essteem issues.
Always feel paranoid. Or crazy....litteraly.
All help is appriciated thanks....
2007-07-31 14:49:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It sounds like you have pretty much the same thing I had - depression and/or social anxiety. I saw a psychiatrist and I now take Prozac. It helped a ton.
2007-07-31 14:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are not a little kid looking for attention.It takes alot of guts to ask a question like this as you dont know how some people may answer you.
I feel exactly the same as you.It's so hard and i understand what you go through everyday.You really should see a councillor about your self-esteem as that sounds like a big part of your problem.You should also see a doctor as it sounds like you probably have Depression too.
It's good that your opening up,even if it's online it will help you.You need to talk about how your feeling to some professionals too that can give you some proper help.
Things will get better for you once you get the right support.It's out there.
Take Care!
2007-07-31 21:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Clara.x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may want to seek Counseling. Tell your medical doctor how you are feeling or if still in school speak withy the psychologist . Some of the "symtoms" you mention sound like a form of Depression and you may just need a medication to regulate your feelings/mood.
You are not alone, many people in this world feel "crazy". I understand what you are saying, heve been there myself.
Please seek help from your Doctor- the sooner you do the sooner you will be back to you.
I wish you the best, hang in there.
2007-07-31 21:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by belladonna25 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I can understand how you feel because one of my family members had suicidal thoughts. Sweetie, please do not commit suicide. There are so many thing to live for. I would be super sad if you decided to take your own life. The world would cry without you around and many people would miss you like your friends and family . Please, I would be so sad to see you hurt yourself! The first thing that I want you to do is talk to someone like a close family member or a really close friend that you can trust. If you do not have anyone to turn to, I want you to call these hot lines and look at these websites that can get you help and support. Here they are:
1) 800-SUICIDE:800-784-2433
2) 1-800-SUICIDE
3)1-800-273-TALK/1-800-273-825...
4) 1-800-999-999 (Suicide & Crisis Center Hotlines)
*http://www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines....
*http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/...........
*http://www.awarefoundation.org
*http://www.depression.com/index.html......
*http://www.depressionisreal.org/......
*http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind...
*http://www.webmd.com/depression/......
If these resources above do not help you, please call 911 or seek another counselor and a psychiatrist. They can help you with your recovery and ease the emotional and physical pain. Just remember to keep everybody's answers in mind and know that there is hope out there. If you need anything, please go to Yahoo Answers and type in another question because I bet everybody would love to help you! I hope you get better real soon! I will make sure to pray for you every night!
2007-07-31 22:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See the self esteem websites, and read pages 2, 2a, and 9, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris and volunteer, even from home, at first. Visit a doctor, and ask for a referral: find out the normal weight range for your height. If above it, use the following: DIETING: Go to: h t t p : / / c h o o s e d i e t . b l o g s p o t . c o m and select one, possibly changing later. Eat 6 - 8 small meals daily, with a little protein in each, preceded 20 minutes earlier with a large glass of water, (drink at least 10 large glasses [250 ml] daily) and snack on as many celery sticks as you like, with the occasional carrot stick, or slices of cucumber and/or tomato in any vinegar desired (no oil!). Also see http://www.ediets.com and subscribe to their email newsletter. Slowly work up to 30 - 60 minutes of brisk walking, daily, possibly doing other exercises at home as well, as you are listening to music, or watching television, like bending and stretching exercises, Tai Chi, (see page 2 at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris ) Pilates, or pump iron. Many overweight people use food in an attempt to fill an emotional void, which is unhealthy, and ultimately futile. See http://emotionalhealth.ivillage.com/... and http://www.foodaddiction.com and http://www.oa.org/ Phone EDAP (U.S.A.) on 1800 931 2237. Others eat out of boredom, so find other things that you enjoy, or are interested in, so that boredom is no longer part of your life. If you are within the normal range, you have a distorted body image, so don't use a full length mirror, just a small, hand mirror to check your appearance, and talk with your school counselor, or therapist. No-one is a good judge of their own looks.
2007-07-31 23:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound like a stupid little kid. A lot of people would say its depression, but I am not qualified to make that kind of judgement. I would say to talk to someone close to you who will understand what your going through, and if you do not have anyone. talk to a school counsler. I would also suggest reading and art, try to eat healthy. maybe get up and watch the sun rise or go for a run. reading fiction always helps me.
2007-07-31 22:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't kill yourself.When I feel depressed I just say to myself ",Life may not be good now,it may not be good tomorrow,but some day all the things that put up with will come back times ten in the form of utter happiness."So Why kill yourself now.
I've never been a fan of antidepressants.I think that you should just learn to love yourself and find a place where you fit in
ask me for more info.
2007-07-31 22:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by zelda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, you seem young and what a life you can have to come, if you only try. happy is a state of mind, not a surroundings you live in. live your life "as if". as if you're a queen, as if you're happy, and pretty soon you will be. happiness and joy are infectious.
try a new club, or church. seek out new friends.
confide in your parents your feelings and ask them to help you find a professional therapist, social worker, or someone who can relate to you on your level, and make it all meaningful for you.
Will pray for you.
2007-07-31 21:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what your going through kiddo! My prayers are
with you. Your right about suicide not being the answer. I have a family member whom is basically going through the
same thing as you. Her doctor referred her to a psycologist
that determined her to be bipolar. With medication and counciling her life has turned around for the better. Don.t give
up, talk with your parents. GOD bless you in Jesus name.
2007-07-31 22:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mo_Joe_man 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to someone who can take you to a professional and get you some help and it won't take much get on an antidepressant or mood stabilizer and get yourself a thearapist and you will do well.
Good luck and take care of youself hun
2007-07-31 22:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋