Disappointed?

Question

alright . before i even start this question . i am NOT fishing for compliments. so dont even start with that sh!t .

Anyways, my question is : people always tell me that im pretty and that im gonna grow up and be "hot" im concerned that if i dont grow up being "hot" that im gonna be disappointed with myslelf. so what would you do? ( and yes i do have low-self asteem) i do take things hard on myself. all my life people have treated me like im a no-one. so its really hard for me to have a higher asteem .

Answer 1

Hmm well judging by your pic, the only way you will grow up ugly is to accidentally dip your head into a vat of acid! And thats highly unlikley, so cheer up:) some girls would give their left leg to look like you.

Answer 2

Sounds like your self-esteem and ego are kinda in the dumps. Be proud of the fact that people think your adorable. And if you don't grow and age as the most beautiful lady big deal. You had your time in the spotlight as a younger person. But fact is that you most likely will be a very attractive and a knock out. Start believing more in yourself but please don't allow yourself to become an egotistical S.O.B.. But be proud of the gifts you have been blessed with and be real.

Answer 3

What other people think and say about you doesn't matter. What matters is what you think of yourself. Most of the time when someone makes fun of you it is because they are jealous of you and they are trying to cover up for their own faults. So, don't let them get you down, if you believe you will grow up hot then you will. I know you said you don't want compliments, but I do agree with the first person who answered. I don't see what you have to worry about because you look beautiful.

Answer 4

Dont worry about it,
i get the same stuff you do[and no i am not trying to boast here]
people look at me and they go "Oh..airhead...let me guess...are u gonna be a model when u grow up Kris?"
and sometimes i look in the mirror and im like...
what if this look doesnt LAST?
what if i get into some horrible accident that leaves a scar on my cheek or disfigures me...im really paranoid about that...

but its not like we have any control over life
so just leave it up to god
if it was meant to be,its meant to be
but things will work out just fine,



heyy,if u have yahoo messenger add me-krystal_engel

Answer 5

you'll grow up to be exactly what you are gonna be. most likely if you take care of yourself like you must do now because you are beautiful, then you'll be just fine.

don't be dissapointed with yourself no matter what happens. try to get some self esteem by whatever means you have to go about getting it. because low self esteem can only lead to putting yourself in bad spots and letting yourself be taken advantage of.

Answer 6

"Hot" gets you nowhere.

Try being smart and educated. Study and go to college. Become a Doctor, or a scientist, or a teacher. Make a difference. 1 in a million make it as a model, pursue a more reasonable and less shallow goal.

No one will give a damn about your self esteem in a few years. Get used to it, and prepare yourself for the world.

Answer 7

So you don't want compliments and look at the answers you have gotten. From your picture you aren't a bad looking girl you need to think more of your self and others will to

Answer 8

Honestly, looking at your picture, you are very pretty and hard to imagine that you wont be beautiful when you grow up but even if you are not ignore the idiots.

Answer 9

worrying for things in the future will only affect your being.live for today and be glad that you're genetically blessed.as you live your life ,encounter many things ,meet different people you will gain confidence,will know how to handle yourself and eventually regret the time you wasted for being disappointed.live life!

Answer 10

Looks are nice to have but its not all about that, you need to not worry about your looks, especially if your already hot, but try to show people that you have a good personality and that its important too.