Am I a Bad Girlfriend??

Question

I am a girl.... well i dont call my boyfriend as much as he wants. When his cell was on he'd call and text me everyday but becuz my # is long distance i have to call him if we talk. I usually dont call but every other day.

His grandma said he was busy when i called tonight so i plan to call in two days. Should i be a better girl and call tommorow??? Am i not showing that i care by not calling?

Answer 1

heck no, it's not ur fault. its long distance next time u talk to him tell him ur sry but its all u can do. if he doesn't understand it wasn't meant to be.

Answer 2

Well if you don't call him I'm sure he will find a girlfriend who will.

I'm not saying to stalk the guy, but calling him every 2 -3 days really isn't showing much interest, especially if he already expressed to you that he wants you to call him more. Get a different cell phone plan that has free long distance (I dont' know if I ready that part correctly, but I'm assuming you have cell phones, if not, most companies for landlines also have free long distance, so having a LD number really isn't an excuse) Plus there's also email.

Answer 3

Your boyfriend sounds a little insecure; like he needs some hand holding even if it's long distance. He may be too clingy and needy for you. You sound secure and independent. You could call tomorrow if you have time. If not, call in two days. If that's the basis for a breakup on his part, so be it.

Answer 4

Because the realationship is long distance itss a strain on both of you. i think that it would be better if you called tomorrow rather than wait. i say this because he seems lonely because he txt everyday he needs you thats wait he is trying to say. so call tomorrow and show him that you care as well.

Answer 5

You are getting stressed about this situation and I belive trhat you should just tell him that you are getting charged alot of money and is there another way to keep in contact and then you should discuss getting the same phone company and then you can talk free in the same network.

Answer 6

does he expect u to call him everyday im him every 5 minutes, and text him every 10 minutes? you should call him tomorrow, but u shouldnt be calling each other too much or else the relationship seems to be too clingy..

Answer 7

no way i am in tha same situation. if i dont call he relly doesnt mind but wen i do call we talk 4 hours until his aunt makes him get off tha fone! he cant call me cause we live in different counties and he doesnt hav a cell cause he got it taken away!i think u r a good girlfrind just 4 callin.

Answer 8

If you ask the phone company, they would tell you for sure,"call him at any time, how many times for as long as you want"...
Have you try sending him a letter?

Answer 9

Are you intrested in HIm? If so, talk to the boy. He may be interesting. If you dont like him, still talk to him. He may want to break up and you do not give him a chance becuase you do not talk to the boy. Hiccup

Answer 10

u r not a bad girlfriend you just dont show any attraction to this guy thats all. i think you should call tomorrow see if he is there

Answer 11

ah . i would call tomorrow . im sorry but if it was me id call everyday. i mean i love my boyfriend that much . i just wanna be with him 24/7 . i dunno maybe .. you should consider him calling you every 2 days. would that be fine to you? id be worried outta my mind if my boyfriend called me every two days. just think about it. no one else can tell you if your a bad girlfriend but yourself. hope i helped . bye .