We have been together going on 20mths.See he's not working and he would do nothing around the house so we got into a heated argument & I kicked him out.(Well cops were invovled) Part of me wants him to come back then another part I guess doesn't..He is a good guy but struggling to get a job. DO you think I should give him another chance or should I just let him go. I'm confused I know I love him & I miss him, but right now he blames me for all of it but yet I was annoyed w/him not helping me.
2007-07-31 11:07:53 · 10 answers · asked by kumo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you want a boy child to take care of then sure bring him back. If you want a man, let him go because he isnt a man yet.
2007-07-31 11:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can give him another chance if you see that he's really striving hard to find a job or if he's really improving for the better if not just let him go. You see he still blames you while your only purpose was for him to find a job or help you on house works that lead to arguments. The truth he's really lazy even though he's not working he can help you at house chores but he's not. It's hard to make a move right now just observe him he'll improve later you can come back but if there's no improvement try to forget him. Although it's hard if that's the only way he'll learn his lessons. Even he's nice what if you end up together can you afford living with him with his kind of lifestyle you do all the work it's unfair. Maybe in some circumstances it's acceptable but if he's relying on you because you have work or you can do everything in the house it's really unfair. When love is involve it's bit hard because you loved him that much you tend to see it in positive way even it's not other people can see but you you can see it but the truth the way you see it some things you do are not right because you're loved strucked to him to become somewhat blind in some situations. Think it over and don't be carried away with your emotions.
2007-07-31 18:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ĦЄŖ§ĦЄ¥☺ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature, unemployed, and bumming off you? Why in the world would you want him back?
You're just lonely, girl. Stay busy. Go out with friends. Take a class or join a gym. Eventually, you will meet someone new. Hint: Don't go out with new someone unless he is closer to you in age and is gainfully employed.
Good luck to you.
2007-07-31 18:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Suz123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him back after he gets a job. He needs to prove himself. You can still date, etc.
However the cops thing indicates a significant lack of maturity. That would be of concern.
2007-07-31 18:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would let him go. My mother n law married a man way younger than her, and he drained her. Now shes in so much debt cause of him. Don't let him take advantage of you!
2007-07-31 19:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mama428 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it makes no sense to be with him if he's gonna sit on his ass and not do anything to help...i can understand if he can't find a job,but,he needs to at least help out a bit if he's got nothing to do with his time...if he does show any obvious inclination to change,give him one LAST chance!!!
2007-07-31 18:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Just Lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weight the pros against the cons and I think you'll know the answer already; now do it!
2007-07-31 18:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by D S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is he, your boy-toy? get real. unless you are emotionally 18, don't expect this to go anywhere.
2007-07-31 18:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yo fock him hes a young focker who doesn't do sh*t you shouldn't be the only one working
2007-07-31 18:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by the illest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to find someone else and see who loves you more
2007-07-31 18:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by lil_mexirican_grl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋