How am I gonna tell my girlfriend that I'm cheating on her?
I don't really feel bad about it, but I know it's wrong.
So I guess I should tell her.
Damn.
2007-07-31 10:53:34 · 24 answers · asked by Alissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your a Frat Dude i understand... s.hit happens when you party naked.... i know... i know..
2007-07-31 11:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well if u feel like the relationships worth saving then give her a heartfelt apology that u truly mean...in person. when it comes to these kinda situations, texts, voicemails, etc. just dont cut it. anyways, if u feel like its pointless 2 even care about what happens between u guys, just tell her what happened anyway so u wont leave her hanging if u break up or anything. im not a professional, but i have perfect examples of this situation *cough*parents*cough*, and i can tell u that if youve done it more than once on this gurl, it mite permanently "scar" her. my father did it with my mom way back when, and she hasnt been the same since [[so they say]]. shes changed, and its not 4 the better....just break it down to her but try 2 b sincere about it if u really care about her
2007-07-31 18:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by iRockThatzAll =] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you don't really feel bad about it, it shouldn't bother you too much to tell her. You obviously aren't interested in your relationship with her anyway. If you know that it is wrong, why did you do it in the first place? You're not necessarily going to hell, but you have some decisions and choices to make in your life to avoid it. I hope she can forgive you and that you can forgive yourself.
2007-07-31 17:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You DON'T feel bad? Guess she didn't mean that much to you. Lay it on the line and tell the lady, and do it quick! She has a life to get on with. Just remember you brought it on yourself when you see her pass by with someone else. Good luck.
2007-07-31 18:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Diane G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you need to do is to repent for both sins you're not married, and having sex and then you are not faithful to your girlfriend how do you expect to be faithful to a wife and be head of a household. Tell your girlfriend and apologize to her on bending knees promise never to do it again and let her know you have repented and if she forgive you, consider yourself lucky.
2007-07-31 18:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you are not going to hell.... But you really are wrong and should tell her. You can not fight what the heart tell you..
However unless it is something else talking to you .. You may go to hell....
Just tell her before it is too late...
2007-07-31 17:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nally25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her that you're cheating. Just tell her that you want to break up. Then you're free to see the new girl and not have to lie to anyone. If you don't want to break up with her then quit cheating on her and treasure her.
2007-07-31 17:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I hope that's not a picture of her because cheating on her is one thing, humiliating her by broadcasting what a jerk you are, and what a chump she is by trusting you may put her over the edge!
2007-07-31 17:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
this is a tuff group, but I would tell her. But what the hell do I know I'm going there too, so meet you on the other side!!!
2007-07-31 17:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by kooreilly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,... if you cheat on her,... and especially if you dont care,... looks like she isnt really your gf,... so hell yes you should tell her,... so she can find a real man
2007-07-31 18:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it doesn't bother you, you should break up with her after you tell her. Because obviously you don't care a whole lot about her. So she needs to move on with her life & you can move on with yours.
2007-07-31 17:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by Kylie<3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋