2007-07-31 07:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by cheyenne p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I say losing members of your family. I am adopted. That really doesn't help. But I have no contact with my birth family on either ***** or G******'s side. Wendy died and so did ******. I don't have any idea what happened to my step-brother he was adopted and I didn't really know him too. I have lost in my adoptive family my Uncle ****** too. Also losing contact with close friends can be upsetting. I left Secondary school in 2005 and I only from when leaving from my year keep in touch with 6 people. Also coping with death of close friends of yours is bad. I have to cope recently with someone who was like any Uncle to me he died. The ***'s are because I don't want to use their names or other names.
2007-07-31 08:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by K_R_Y_S_T_A_L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is according to lots of things, Some people are closer to there mom and some there dads and even some to grand parents ect.
For me I lost my mom when I was 9. It was hard, but I lost my x husband (we were still best friends) of 18 years. This was harder I think because we was together for 18 years. I only can remember my mom about 6 years. And to I think children handle death different then adults. I think children don't really understand they will never see them again and all the things they will miss doing with then . Were adults do.
2007-07-31 07:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my parents are still alive but I had a really hard time loosing someone who was like a mom to me she was only 34 she died of AIDS and I had twin boys about 5 years ago and I gave birth 4 months early our smaller one passed away shortly after birth and our bigger one Jordan passed away at 8 months old. That is the hardest thing I have ever been through and am still going through and hope to never have to go through it again.
2007-07-31 07:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by freckleface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an adult orphan. I was an only child. My dad died in 1985 after a short illness. My last conversation with him was telling him to buck up and fight -- he did not. My sadness was tempered by immediately being the sole supporter of my mom and taking care of their home.
In 1994 taking my mom home from a doctor's appointment, she had a heart attack and died in my car, in rush-hour traffic. I held it together through the funeral and through my rehabbing their house to sell. But the hurt is still there. It is an empty feeling that just does not go away. I do not believe in closure, that is just a myth perpetrated by those who do not want to hear about death and the sorrow. There is no closure, you just become used to the loss.
2007-07-31 07:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by CatLaw 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a list of relatives that have passed on. Yes, losing both my parents. Besides, them I lost a Grand Daughter, a Sister, my one and only Brother and my Husband. But, God he has given me the strength and courage, to keep on keeping on. We have to, because Life really does move on.
Have a great afternoon.
2007-07-31 07:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosing my older brother Chris. He was 28 years old, married, father of two. He was murdered 100 yards from his house over a bag of M&M's and a Mountain Dew. The guys who did it each got 8 years.
I will always have great memories of him, but when he died so did a part of me. I miss him everyday!
2007-07-31 07:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things that were left unsaid...
2007-07-31 08:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by CAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋